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Am I Not Good Enough
Somethings has been bothering me for a while and my wife thinks I’m over reacting. Maybe I am but what does this say about me?
After my now wife and I had been dating for several months she told me that she had a one night stand a few weeks before we started going out. She and her friend went out to a bar and had enough drinks to relax her inhibitions. They were dancing and guys were dancing with them. After a couple of more drinks one guy took her home. Her friend said “have fun!” And off she went. They fooled around in the car on the way back to his place while his roommate drove. He had her top off and was sucking and pinching her nipples. She had his dick out stroking it. When they got to his place he made her walk to his apartment topless leading her by her holding his dick. Inside they stripped down and fooled around some more. She swears the roommate was watching them. She then moved to his dick and proceeded to suck him off. After he came he couldn’t get hard again so he ate her out. The next morning not knowing where she was had to get a ride home from the roommate. Cum dried in her hair she road in the car with the roommate telling her how hot she is and what great tits she has. Uncomfortable they arrived at her house and she bolted for the door. Leaving her panties and a sock behind.
Good for her to have some fun when she’s single.
She also gave both her ex’s blowjobs frequently according to her, one of her ex’s and her best friend.
In the 8 months we’ve been together she never once sucked my dick. Never. When I asked she said “we have to save something’s for after we’re married.” We had talked about marriage and now fast forward a few months more and we are now engaged. Still no blowjob. Got married and 3 months on no blowjob. 15 months and no blowjob. I finally get up the courage to talk to her about it and she says “I don’t like giving them.” So her ex bf got them regularly, her bf after that got them and her one night stand got one, but me never.
So she’ll give them to everybody but me? WTF?
What’s wring with me? It’s not hygiene, I’m not small or too big. Slightly above average. I don’t cum too much and no girl I’ve ever been with complained about the taste.
So again, what’s wrong with me? Why don’t I qualify for a blowjob?
Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated.
This doesn’t surprise me at all. I’ve dated women who were good girls that did like to fuck and suck. I’ve dated (not for too long) bad girls who didn’t know the first, second or third thing about sex and pleasing a partner. Sorry you got roped into a bad marriage.
Just divorce her. She sounds like a serious B. Probably a lot of other stuff she’s not telling you. Get yourself a divorce and find a hot 25 yo. Good luck you poor bastard.
Yeah, it's not you, it's just some bitches will do ANYTHING to get that ring, and that little trip down the isle , and half your paycheck, or more, and once they have it, usually bj's , anal, and frequent fucking are the 1st things to go. Or, in your sad case, never happen at all. Go out and buy yourself a whore, at least they're honest about it.
My wife has this issue with anal. She had anal before she had vaginal, as she was stupidly “saving” her virginity. She had anal with 5 guys before she lost her virginity then had 7 boyfriends after that, so by my count that’s 12 anal sex partners at least by her own admission. So shortly after we married, she decided no more anal. I told her I liked anal and it’s one reason that I liked dating her, she was open to everything sexually where other girls were not. She stopped giving me anal. So many other guys have stuck it in her butt and she won’t let me now.
It's not you. She may have done at one time, learned she didn't actually care and probably has some regret with some of the things she did associated with giving Bj's
When I was in high school I met this girl and quickly became friends with her , not boyfriend girlfriend just hangout smoke a bowl type friends. One day we skipped school ,went to her house and had just smoked a joint when she asked me if I wanted a blowjob. She was to this day the best cock sucker I have ever had. As time went on she would offer to suck me all the time eventually telling me she sucked her first dick at 11 and loved it. 30 years later Im talking with her now husband and he tells me everything would be great if she would only give him head. She has never sucked his cock, not one single time. When I asked her about why , she told me she didn't want him to think she was slutty when they started dating so she never sucked him and it just continued through their marriage. The funny thing is she has told me she sucked other guys off while married to him. Crazy!
Exactly. A lot of married women want their husband to be the safe island of non-sluttiness because that is how they present themselves, but whenever they are away from that island, they are in sexy land, if you know what I mean, where they can let their hair down.
Does your sister suck your dick? Does she fuck you?
I'm in same situation, only its been 17 years for me
I had a sexless marriage for that long. Felt like an eternity of hell. She was shocked when I divorced her. I was shocked I didn't divorce her shortly after the I do's.
In my experience if there is no blow job before marriage (and at least giving the engagement ring itself deserves one), there sure as Hell won't be one after marriage. Your case seems to support that.
You can't make your wife suck your cock, man. Do what most frustrated guys do and get head from your gay neighbor or friend... he will know how to suck cock way better, anyway.
Why would you marry such a woman?
I would marry my sister if I could. She sucks my cock better than any woman I've ever met. Fuck your sister. She loves you.