Caught her
After having sex with my wife we were talking and she told me about her friend who was having an affair behind her husbands back. My wife said her friend was fucking her ex and the sex was great, the best she ever had. She would meet this lover at the supermarket or mall then they would go to his place or a motel and fuck like crazy, and said they had been cheating for 5 years and her fool of a husband never knew. I asked my wife why she told me the story and she said she wanted to see how I would react to the cheating . I said I didn't approve , if the wife had sexual problems she should talk to her husband and work it out. My wife grinned and said that sometimes talking wasn't enough and fucking was the only answer. Wow, that answer struck me like a truck. I couldn't get her words out of my head. Later that week I happened to see my wife talking to some guy I thought I knew at the supermarket. I pulled over and parked out of sight, I watched as she got in his car and drove away. I followed and watched then park at a motel and go in. My heart almost stopped as I watched from a distance.How could she do this to me ? Then I remembered where I saw this guy, he was at our wedding , he was her ex boyfriend. She told me they were to be married but she caught him cheating on her. Now it all made sense, the cheating story wasn't her friend , it was her, she was the one cheating with her ex lover. She had been cheating on me for 5 years and had the nerve to tell me how great the sex was between them. I remember the grin on her face when she was telling the story. She was grinning and laughing while telling her story to me her fool of a husband. I remember how she said her friend loved her ex lovers cock and how he knew how to fuck a woman and that she would cum and cum. I drove home and had to decide what to do, we have a small child and I love him more than life itself. So what do I do, do I get a lawyer, keep quite, get even, beat the hell out of lover boy, what? I need advice.
I found out that my wife was cheating on me after I found messages,pictures and videos on her phone from none other than the husband of a couple that we are best friends with! Or so I thought! I couldn't believe the pictures that were attached to the messages Andrew was sending her! Love you sucking my cock one said and there was a picture of trisha my wife with cum on her chin and Andrew's cock in her mouth! There were videos he'd sent her of him fucking her arse with trisha replying that she can't wait to feel it again! I rang Andrew's wife nicola and said that we needed to talk, I walked the short distance to their house and prepared her for what she was about to see! If Andrew was there I honestly think she would have killed him! I managed to calm her down and poured her a large vodka, what are we going to do next nicola asked me? I don't know I answered, I know what we can do she said and took her top off! What are you doing I said? Let's give them a taste of their own medicine! We ended up having sex in the kitchen,nobody has admitted anything to each other so we're all having the best of both worlds
I found out after going to the same massage guy for 3 years that he slowly seduced her on the massage table! All those years I was paying him to massage her and he was fucking her!
I know this is an old post and the original posters rarely comeback to provide an update, but I've read this one a few times and I have to contribute my thoughts:
WHAT I WOULD DO
1. Your mantra must become "don't play your cards too early." Write that down and put it in your wallet and review at least daily!!
2. Gather as much evidence as possible without raising her suspicions. This has to include at least pictures but your aim is video evidence.
3. Find out as much as you can about him (is he married, job, family etc.)
4. Carefully, pump your wife for information about "her friends affair." Don't ask a million questions at once or she'll get nervous. Since you know it is actually her you can use the information against her. For example, if she says they do it at her house then you know they are doing at your house and you can set up cameras at your place. If she tells you some of the kinky stuff they do you know they are doing it and that will help for #6 below.
5. If possible, beat the shit out of loverboy, but you MUST NOT BE CAUGHT!
If you can't do it without being caught, wait til later to get your revenge on him!
6. Ramp up sex with her, get kinky with her as much as possible. That way when you break you can laugh about what you did to her. This will also make her think you don't know! This is called reclaiming the pussy!!
7. When enough evidence is gathered (again video if at all possible) get a good divorce lawyer.
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8. Find the motel they are at for one of their meetings, if they regularly go to the same one, get chummy with the clerk ($100 helps) and get a spare key. Break in and confront them. Show her copies of your evidence, let her know what you will do next.
9. Send evidence to family and friends, his wife, family and employer (if applicable) so everyone knows what has been going on.
CHECKMATE
I wouldn't normally be this vindictive. In fact, for just an affair I might keep quiet. But this has been going on for 5 years with an ex! And she taunted you by telling you the story of her "friend" and grinning about it and laughing at her "fool of a husband!!" She thinks she is soooo smart and slick, much smarter than you. It is time to reassert yourself!!
I forgot to add to have the kid DNA paternity tested.
Keep quiet. She’s clearly enjoying this and y’all are still having great sex. Everybody is winning in this scenario
She taunting her "fool of a husband"?????? You'd be ok with that?
I think you would be wise to get a DNA test for your child to make sure it is really yours.
I am glad I was smart enough not to ever get married nor have children.
I'd say kill them both, but, if you're dumb enough to come in here and ask us, a bunch of bottom-feeding perverts, for advice, I'm afraid you'd do it !
That’s more than a slap in the face, I haven’t been faithful myself. But I certainly wouldn’t be like that and speak to you about it. And I most certainly do not make him have sloppy seconds. I have a sexual side that needs to be filled, if he can’t perform I will certainly look elsewhere.
You should go and fuck her friend,
My wife asked me a few weeks ago it I would want a buddy. I asked what she meant. She said kinda like sister wives but the opposite. I told her if she can get a guy, he can move in and pay half the bills.
Start hiding your money. Take cash out until you empty your accounts. Get more evidence through pictures or texts that she is cheating then file for divorce.
I believe a gent on here did the same thing. He kept his mouth shut and ruined her.
Is your son less than 5 years old?
Think about it.
Truth be told the kid is probably the exes
What's the age gotta do with it? Why under 5? What if he was 6? It's still gonna affect him the same. And also why should he stay just for the child? Was she thinking of her child for the last 5 years. (Also please get a DNA)
She has been cheating for 5 years, the age has to due with his parentage!
Get a lawyer. File for divorce and secure a joint custody agreement.