If your married is oral sex with another person cheating?

"Eating isn't cheating"

My wife and I don’t look at oral sex as cheating. Intercourse is different. That is reserved for marriage but oral sex just relieves sexual ten and is not an emotional or intimate thing. This may not be a widely held view, but as long as there’s not a lot of stigma attached to the act, we do it. It depends on the person really. Besides that is really erotic because it is outside of cultural norms. My wife doesn’t have a lot of female friends so she hangs out with me and my friends. Usually when we all get together, my wife well blow all of us of course my prayers like it so no one talks about it.

If she talks to you about it, it's not cheating even if you don't approve.

If she says it is not cheating then it is not cheating

My ex told me it was fine to get my cock sucked, "If a woman is dumb enough to go it with nothing in return."
Of course, the situation of a woman wanting to suck you off with no date or dinner first would be an extremely rare thing. Never happened.

I don't agree especially on the part of kissing.
I always greet my husbands friends with a kiss, sure some last a bit more than I think they should but I don't complain for it's my husband that asked me to, to start with.

I've always thought it was very sweet when my friend's wife greets me with a quick peck on the lips. There's nothing sexual about it, just a token of friendship and affection. I wish more people were okay with "social kisses."

Bill Clinton said getting a blow job isn't the same as getting sex.

Yes it is cheating. I am sure your lawyer will tell you the same

Of course it is cheating. Anyone that thinks otherwise is truly a skank or scumbag. So how long has the wife thought this or first said this to you? I dare say that is how long she has been cheating on you. You are wise to split up with her and should get this divorce post haste.

When my wife is in her teens she had a lot of boyfriends and she would let them put the tip in. And she said that wasn't sex she would have parties at her house and that for five guys put the tip in and pulled out and come in your mouth all in one night!when she tell me the stories it would get me so horny but she said putting the Tippin wasn't sex nor was letting guys come in her mouth she still says that and I know she goes to parties and blows guys and says it's not sex I know it is but I like it I get hard every second of the day think about her playing with other guysI love when were fucking and she saying distance and cheating if you just put the tip in lots of times she has incredible or cabbage right should rub my tits against your pussy and I squirt all over her perfectly shaved pussy she'll tell me to go get a lick of my come she tells me I have to be ready when she comes home pick up of the guys come to. She's so smoking hot shit I swear to God she looks like a porn star Scott nice perfect fake breasts and a flat tummy tiny little ass shows of the guys fucker in the ass but I was at a party with her and we have a game where he push a couple into the bathroom. And we wait five minutes and open up the door. I opened up the door early because I couldn't wait to see sure enough she was sucking on this black guys cock and everybody was cheering he squirted all over and I went in there and lick your face and her nipples check comes to go stripping off her tits she was the Toyota party.it was so hot watching neck I get hard again and rubbing his huge black tip your pussy but she still says that such sex even if she comes all over I'm so lucky I found my soulmate. By the way we always have these parties at one of my friends house he's married to Q Columbian girl he's a black car he's got a lot of friends and brothers and my wife always shows and a good time sometimes I'll suck one of their cocks and then I'm coming by now to know Yum Yum Yum

If his dick is significantly bigger than your husband's dick then whether you give him a blowjob or fuck him, it is not considered cheating. As a healthy woman you have every right to have that experience and should take the opportunity when it presents itself. You should not deny yourself!!

It's still cheating.

Tell your wife, some girl just let me eat her pussy and then she sucked my dick.

So, what did the lawyer say ?

My wife, one night, asked me what I thought about her sleeping with another guy. At first I thought it was a loaded question. Something for her to start a fight over and I called her out on it. She reassured me that this wasn't the case. I asked if she had someone in mind. She said she did. I asked who it was and she said Chris (friend of hers for 15 years). She said it wouldn't be all the time and she wouldn't stop having sex with me. She just wanted some extra dick on the side. No attachments. Just her and him getting off. I told her I couldn't answer yes until it happened. Part of me thinks it sounds hot but part of me isn't sure I wouldn't get angry/jealous. She knows of my fantasy to walk in the bedroom after work and see her having sex with someone else. The next time I worked late, 3 days later, she fulfilled that fantasy. I walked in the bedroom after a late night at work and she was on her hands and knees getting fucked by Chris. No condom as she has had an iud for a couple years. Both drenched in sweat. Her big tits swaying as he fucked her. I must say it was very erotic

Yeah, but i couldnt take that shit. if i cant be the one who fulfilles her needs, then she must cut her ties with me or vice verca.

Is she related to Bill Clinton?

My wife and I are okay with oral and mutual masturbation. Sorry for you

It is cheating, but she clearly gave you the green light to do the same, so why not go get your wang sucked?? I would, eat a little pussy too. Your wife doesn't care, and if she's doing oral with other people she's certainly doing everything else.

Of course it is, how silly to even ask

It is cheating no matter who does it. Husband or wife. If we the married couple are in acceptance, there is no problem. Can you fix it with her by swinging?