I gave an ultimatum
I've been married 15 years. At first, sex was great. Sex 3 times a week. A blowjob just because. Then the years pass. She's now 53 and im 45. She doesn't want sex almost at all. Like once a month if I'm lucky. I ask and she keeps saying not today. Can't masturbate because she doesn't want me doing that around her either. So one day I got tired of it.
She doesn't work. She said I make enough money that she shouldn't have to. She doesn't do half the house work either. She stopped shaving her pussy about 5 years ago. It's ok tho. I like it hairy. I took a shower before going to work. I walked into the bedroom naked. She didn't even look at me. I asked if she wanted to have sex before I head to work. Again, she said she wasnt in the mood. I said, "I can't keep not doing this. You don't wanna have sex but don't want me to jack off either. This is how it's going to be. You don't wanna have sex with me, I'm gonna start having sex with the neighbor." She said, "So you're gonna cheat on me?" I said, "Nope. Cheating means an emotional relationship. Just sex." She said, "I'm not ok with it." I said, "Then leave. I love you but you can't expect me to just be celebat forever. You want a divorce, fine. Our only daughter is 18 so you won't get child support. You don't have a job. I love you. Dearly. I don't want a divorce. I want sex." She said, "So you want to fuck the married woman next door?" I said, "Nope. The gay man on the other side." She said, "How do you know you'd be into it?" I said, "We've hung out a few times." She said, "Yeah. You and your football games. Wait..." I said, "Yep. Tv never even got turned on." She said, "So you like fucking a man in the ass?" I said, "No. But I do like him fucking me in the ass. Sometimes...but mainly him sucking me and me sucking him." She said, "Are you saying you're gay?" I said, "Nope. Bisexual. I love having sex with you but once a month isn't cutting it."