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Affair with my ex wife
I've been divorced from my ex wife, Stacy, for about 15 years now. I've been remarried for 7 years. It wasn't an ugly divorce. Well, not in the sense that nobody did anything bad. No cheating. No huge fight. We were just going different directions.
So, about 6 months ago I got a text from her asking if I wanted to get lunch. I asked why. I hadn't heard anything from her in 10 years or more. She said, "We haven't talked in forever and I just wanted to catch up." I agreed but didn't tell my wife. My wife knows how I struggled to be divorced back in the day and it would start a fight.
So we are having lunch and she asks about how my wife and I are doing. I told her we are fine. She then asked an awkward question. She said, "You guys have sex often?" I said, "Why do you wanna know that?" She said, "Just curious. You and I had sex a lot. Just wonder if she can keep up with how horny you are...or used to be." I said, "Once or twice a week." She said, "That's all? You not horny as often or she just doesn't want it." I said, "Oh I'm plenty horny. Just work schedules conflicting and she's just not horny as much as I am. She said, "So how often are you jerking off?"
Now, this is just how she talks and I fell back into old habits. I said, "Oh I jack off just about every day." She said, "Yeah, sex with Mike isn't like it was with you." I said, "That's your own fault. You wanted to divorce." She said, "Yeah. And I'm seriously sorry. Didn't know what I had till it was too late."
Long story shorter, we got a hotel room. I wouldn't say better than my current wife but just as good. So for 6 months we've had sex twice a week. I am keeping myself from any expectations because likely she'd end up flaking out on me a second time at a seconds notice.
I dated a guy all through high school, he always told me how much he loved me, and when we were juniors, he gave me a very nice promise ring. That was just after we started to have sex. We used to have marathon sex sessions just about every Saturday afternoon. Both of us were virgins and we learned how to satisfy each other together.
Well, the marriage never happened, he was extremely smart, off to college on full scholarship, law school and became an Assis DA. He also married a lawyer. I married a career solider. I met him at home 15 years later, we were both there because our fathers had passed away, neither of us had our spouses with us. So being emotionally weak I ended sleeping with him, the sex was even better than I remembered.
Sort of the same with me. Several years after a divorce my ex was in the area and asked to see me to catch up. Our divorce wasn't acrimonious, just differing needs as in I was happy but she wasn't. As for the meeting, I was suspicious and having a girlfriend at the time wasn't keen but as the ex was in the area I agreed hoping that I wasn't making a huge mistake. It was a friendly coffee and chat in the city that was turning sexual and the offer was definitely on the table. However, I resisted and we left on good terms. I would have loved to have had sex with her again, she was quite good at it when in the mood. I later found out from a mutual female friend that she had had several boyfriends and that the relationships never lasted and that she was angling to get back with me (I was always too easy going with her!). I'm glad that I didn't go any further.
What you are doing to your current wife is shitty, and be wary of your ex's motives. It sounds like she wants to get back together again. All women know that the way to a man's heart starts by giving him pussy. She could easily be setting you up for blackmail at minimum.