Advice needed by a college age female

I'm a 21-year old college junior (soon to be senior...yay!) in need of some advice. I consider myself attractive, and although I get asked out on plenty of dates I've only had three boyfriends since high school. Lost my virginity as a freshman in college to boyfriend #2, just broke up with boyfriend #3. I think I might be bisexual because I've fantasized about having sex with some of my girlfriends but never have.

My problem is I can only cum when I'm alone and playing with myself. I always faked it with my boyfriends. But I really do want to learn how to cum when I'm having sex with somebody (man or woman).

My parents have neighbors down the street that have known me since grade school. Husband and wife in their 50s but very athletic and attractive. I've started masturbating over thoughts of them doing me. Maybe they could teach me how to cum?

Looking for advice and suggestions for making my fantasy a reality.



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  • Your best option is to explore yourself first, find your turn on's what you enjoy and what turns you off, just sticking a dildo inside you and playing with your gspot won't do it for you, explore your body, caress it, pinch and rub your nipples, pull on your breasts, slide your fingers down your side gently and over tummy and around your belly button and so on, caress your body a good half hour before masturbating, spend time on your body and you will have best climax you will ever have had, you have not found that right perosn yet, seems that they were only about sex, sex is one thing but passionte making love is a totally different thing, sex is a wham bam thank you mam kind of thing and that is not a turn on for anyone that has a loving heart which i believe you do

    if you think your bi, then find a girl that you trust and can kiss and caress each other, i think you would more than likely like girls more than boys, girls may turn you on more and you will know if you like boys or girls, im 15 high school girl, i am a lesbian since 12 years old, i found my turn on's via mastuabting and exploring my body, i know what turns me on and what i like and how i like to be touched, but for me im only 15 and im still a virgin as not meet any girl to be with yet

  • Rub your clit as you're being fucked. It's that easy.

  • It is not clear if you have ever had or tried to have an orgasm orally? It is my experience that most women cum much easier from oral/clitoral stimulation rather than through intercourse. Of course the person giving you oral must have some talent and understanding of the female orgasm. It is a bit more than simply licking a clit.

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  • Find a woman closer to your age who is either bi or gay, and ease into a casual sexual relationship. No head games, no drama, just sex and friendship. And, relax, for fuck's sake.

  • I have a friend in her twenties that's bi. She use to be a stripper..nice body. They say women know how to lick pussy better than a man. Sometimes she would bring another girl over. Her friend would suck my cock while she would lick her girlfriend. It was great. If interested please reply. Thanks

  • My recommendation is to approach the wife alone on this one. Start by asking her for some one-on-one time to get some "sexual advice" that you're uncomfortable talking to your parents about. Depending on how this goes, open up with her about you're being "over-sexed" and how you have all sorts of fantasies--including ones involving her and her husband. She just might surprise you.

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