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What should I do with my wife's confession?
The other day, my wife and I were talking about sex dreams. She admitted to having a sex dream about a friend from when she was a kid. We're now 50. She said that he once had a crush on her but it was unrequited.
During sex, (we don't have it that often due to medical problems from my deployment), I brought him up later that day during dirty talk (common for us) and it got her really turned on....big smile across her face and an intense orgasm. Later, she private messaged him on social media but just conversational stuff. I think he's now in her mind a lot and she fantasizes about him a lot.
She's going to visit her father in her hometown (about 1,000 miles away) this summer. Our sex life isn't that good due to my health issues and since we've discussed this, she's seemed oddly happy. I feel like if I bring up jealousy it will be a turnoff to her towards me and make me look insecure. Maybe I've resigned myself to her hooking up with him anyway.
Give her condoms and a go pro. ask her to video it and tell her to watch it while you give her head. either that or watch her go and never return.
When she leaves tell her to have a good time "visiting her old stomping grounds". Be proud of yourself you have opened the way for her to enjoy a sexual adventure. The best lovers are not the guys who perform well in bed, but the guys that facilitate the women in their lives getting great sex where ever, when ever, how ever, and with who ever they desire.
She went shopping for new clothes the other day, some summer outfits and tried them on. She looked pretty sexy in her skirts. Last weekend, she got a new hairstyle. Yeah, I think it's probably going to happen.
You helped plant the seed and added to it with the dirty talk about him during sex . She now has him on her mind and thinks you are ok with her fucking him because you used him to get her off . Accept the fact she will be fucking him when she goes to visit her father.
I think I'll just not say anything more about it to her.