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Tell me if you think I'm gay, please
I need your help to figure this out once and for all. Not that I think the internet can do that, I'm just interested in hearing all the opinions I can get and weigh them for myself
I'm a married man of 18 years, about 50 years old. My wife and I have a good relationship. We laugh, we have fun, we both work hard, we enjoy each other.
The sex is not frequent or entirely satisfying. I love pleasing her and being pleased but I always fantasize about cock when I'm with her. I get hot from her, too. Of course.
I look at cock on the internet, fantasize about shemales, multiple men, I sometimes look at Craigslist for hookups with men or Trans women. I would never follow through with it but the fantasies persist and get stronger. I think about giving head, getting fucked, hooking up with Trans women all the time and I have dreams about it. I'll wake up and tell my wife I had a sex dream but I'll never tell her that I was getting fucked by Trans women or men, sucking dicks, etc....in the dreams
I masturbate quite often with dildos while looking at the and thinking about above things. Aside from being somewhat addicted to porn but no more than any other male my age, what could this possibly mean for me?
I would have no qualms with being gay if I were and while I love the male cock, I don't have any attraction to men nor do I want to be romantically involved with one. I'm just really hot for cocks. I never look at men and think they are attractive, just women.. I'm very attracted to women
What gives?
You are not gay. You just love the sight and thought of hard cock. I’m the same way . Hard cock is sexy just like wet pussy is .
Think you are worrying too much. I would just enjoy the fantasies. Think as we get older we think about what we could have done. I also in 50’s, have a very sexy wife, but also have fantasy of a hot guy with sexy cock and sucking him off. Wife joins in. Still very hetero but the thought of touching a hot hard guy still makes me very hard!
Considering the fact you've been married for quite a long time, It could be that you're looking for something different and refreshing as well. But... You're probably bisexual to some degree
I fantasize about killing people, especially liberals, but that doesn't make me a murderer. You are not gay until you engage in gay sex with another man. Even then, the fact that you are also attracted to women would make you bisexual.
I used to fantise the same thing about Trump voters, but then
O dream of having sex with guys but don't know how to find them.