Can't resist

I'm 36 and have been married for 8 years. I recently got my doctorate and work at a local university. I love my husband, but he is a blue-collar type that works in construction. He's great, but there are some things that we simply can't discuss, because he never went to college. Sometimes our conversations are a little lacking in substance.

I've been blessed to have colleagues who are close friends. Lately I've been telling my husband that I'm going to the library for research, when in fact I've been going to small gatherings at the houses of my coworkers. It is so fun to talk about what we've been researching, have a few drinks, and relax. It makes me feel alive. It's usually just five or six of us, but we have also been having sex at most of these meetups. It's totally casual sex with singles and couples. There is nothing like screwing people who are really smart. It's such a turn-on, and not something that I experience with my husband.

My husband would leave me if he found out, and this scares the shit out of me. I've been trying to regain my senses and stop cheating, but it is hard. Having group sex with hot, sexy, smart people is addictive.

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  • Rachel ratshit car eeeey!

  • He is probably banging the local coffee shop or bar waitress and telling her he is sick of his prude and stuck up PHd wife. Think you are so smart and special? Well you are not.

  • Darling these situations always, always end in tears if you don't want that stop immediately

  • Well, time to decide what matters most. You knew he wasn’t the intellectual type when you married him. Sounds like you’ve changed, not him. Probably time to reassess your life. Good luck.

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