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Is my wife cheating
I am very worried that my wife may be cheating; she recently moved jobs and has mentioned in passing that she is one of the only women working in her department. She has started to dress more daringly for work with tight skirts, low cut tops and heels. I have mentioned this and she says the new job is more customers facing and this is the expectation of her boss. She is away quite a lot at conferences with her new company and it was after one of these trips that I noticed that she started to behave differently in the bedroom. We have gone from routine sex with the lights out, to lights on wild naked sex, where she is taking the lead. I am loving the change, but worried that this all stems from an affair with a co-worker, or one of her clients, I am reluctant to ask too many questions, as I love her and don’t want to lose her to someone else.
Time for the bubblegum test. Sneak a piece of chewed up bubblegum up into her vag before she goes to work. If she is fucking around, it will be gone when she gets home.
We need to accept that women are wired this way and can’t help responding to flirting and male attention. I would assume that a very high percentage of wives have cheated at some time in their married life. Often unintentionally, but if the circumstances are right, or alcohol is involved they may be tempted to stray. My wife confessed to me that she had drunken sex with a guy she met on her Bachelorette party, just a week before we were married. We are still together despite this as her honesty strengthened our trust in eachother.
Before you take any action, you have to consider the options you have when the truth comes out. It sounds as if her new found confidence in the bedroom is a good thing, which you are clearly enjoying.
She has probably found the excitement of the job change empowering and as the new girl, she will have attracted the attention of her new colleagues making her feel special and desirable. If we assume that she may have had a sexual relationship with a co-worker or client, it depends on whether you can accept sharing her, but up your game to ensure that she enjoys exciting sex with you which may ensure that she stays. On the other hand if you find the betrayal too much to handle then you may have to consider letting her go.
If this were my wife, I would sit down with her and explain that I could accept if she needed additional sex with other men, but instruct her to bring them back to the house and enjoy the excitement of a threesome together. At least everyone gets what they need and there is no deceit.
If you have to ask this question you know the answer. She has turned into a work slut and you know it. When she gets home look for cum crusted panties