What to do
I have been separated for five years and my husband has access to our children boy 16 girl 15 for two weekends per month by mutual agreement
Recently he has asked that I put our daughter on the pill because when they stay with him they both sleep naked in a double bed and he is getting sick of providing condom's and wants them both to enjoy sex without having to worry about putting on protection all the time plus his sewerage has been blocked a few times from used condom's
This situation has shocked me it has been going on for over a year without my knowledge, reluctantly I have agreed and we are off to the clinic on Wednesday I do think it is for the better because there is no way I can stop it now, after talking to my daughter she has asked if they can sleep together in our house if her father provides a new king size bed with linen etc. that he suggested
I am really in two minds about this happening right under my nose and obviously with my consent
Any suggestions please ?