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Unsure if I should let her move in
I've been dating this chick for about a month, and she wants to move in with me, but I'm worried, because she's a slut.
We met at a party of a mutual friend. She was getting spit-roasted by a couple of my friends when I initially met her. She let me screw her too, and I appreciated that she told me she had herpes before we went at it. Afterwards we hung out, had a few cigarettes, and discovered we had good chemistry and a lot in common. We exchanged numbers, and we've been hanging out everyday. She is fun to be around.
I'm 22, and she's 24, and she has a couple of kids, ages 3 and 5, who are interracial. The fathers of her kids are a couple of different black guys (she's white). She still keeps in touch with the fathers, although she said she doesn't fuck them anymore. I'm not sure if I totally believe her, because I've seen her fuck other guys, as that's how we met, but whatever.
She's been staying with one of my friends, as she doesn't have a job or a source of income other than child support. It's a crash pad type of scenario, and she's living in a house with five other guys. She's admitted that she's screwed some of them when she gets horny, but that she wants to be my girlfriend and devoted to me. Yesterday she asked me if she and her kids could move into my apartment.
She seemed slightly offended when I said, "I'll have to think about it." I actually have some strong feelings for her at this point, almost like true love, but it's a big move to have her and her kids living in my personal space. She doesn't understand why I'm hesitating, and said, "I don't see what the issue is, if you love me." I think she has a point, because I'm not sure why I'm hesitating either--I just have an uneasy "sixth sense" about it. Anyway, if you were in my shoes, would you let her move in?
Oh my god, are men really THIS dumb ? SUCKER
No. Fucking. Way. (Should you move her in).
Fuck to the no degree ! She's using you like a lab rat. You get her preggers and you're done for life, she'll be the costliest mistake you will ever make !
A moocher slut with no job and two kids, that's not very bright of you to have her move in.
No, no and no !
She's 24 with two kids, no income, nothing to her name, sleeps around. She clearly takes what she wants, doesn't care too much about the consequences. Having a single kid without any means to bring it up is a mistake, two by the age of 24 is just... well... Do you think she has good judgement about life decisions and is a reliable person ? Hell no.
You're her really obvious and easy meal ticket out to a better situation rather than sleeping on a friends couch.
You need to think really very seriously if you want to take on all her baggage and life choices at the age of 22 after just a month of knowing her. TBH it's utterly stupid. You're going to get involved in a difficult situation and there will be repercussions for you. Leave her well alone.
Tell her why you are hesitating rather than leaving her in the dark. If she's cool she'll respect your thoughts and give you a response. Take it from there.
Tell her to fuck of she just want you to be a babysitter when so gos out fucking other guys .