His Keyholder
My husband suggested about six months ago that he would like to try chastity, initially I got a metal cage from my girlfriend who suggested we use it, try it then upgrade to a more comfortable small plastic one with an internal lock like her husband has should we enjoy it, she also gave me a set of cuffs and explained shaving, cleaning and teasing him to precum but not letting him have a cum or sex till I felt like it "you will be in total control" if he gets cranky and starts making demands just don't unlock him, ensure he cannot find the key's.
Well we ordered the plastic one two weeks later and it is fabulous whenever I clean him he is cuffed behind and his feet tied currently I have not permitted orgasm for six weeks because he was pestering for it, he is very obedient and nice now and know's who the boss is of course he satisfies me with tongue, fingers and toy's when ever I want but cannot get a horn or masturbate with the small cock cage on.
I am sure he loves being teased to precum when he is cleaned, I am thinking of having him wear sexy female panties so am going to take him shopping this weekend.
My friend wants to watch me clean him so she can comment and give suggestion's so I think that will happen pretty soon, I love being in control and humiliating him
It probably would be better if your friend conducted the cleaning and teasing while you watched she could make suggestions and derogatory comments about his prick and balls while doing so, he will be humiliated for sure
Oh hell yeah. This is definitely a better way.
I let my elder sister clean and tease my husband she is just a natural at first he complained but after being denied orgasm or teasing for four weeks he agreed and just loves it when she comes over now, once a month after attending to him she leaves him unlocked so we can have great sex we both hold a key
You should let your friend shave, clean and tease him it sounds like you might learn a lot, when I first got my man into chastity I got my mother over to teach me she and dad had been doing it for years, initially it was humiliating for my man but mom was just so great at teasing she kept him there right on the edge for about 40 minutes the first time, now she can hold him for an hour she also has given both of us a list of punishments, if my man plays up mom has suggested that she keeps the key's, hubby is being very nice to both of us
My husband had an unauthorised cum five weeks ago he knows full well if he is released and being teased and feels like he will cum he has to say stop but he didn't, he has only been released and cleaned once since so for quite some time he will only be cleaned every two and a half weeks no teasing, it will be a long while till he is permitted to orgasm again.
Sweetheart you have to jump straight onto any disrespect and punish them accordingly, when I first started my husband in a cage he would often winge and pester about getting out and having sex, one day I told him I was thinking of having MY cock pierced in Prince Albert fashion and showed him from the net what that involved well he has never been naughty since, he had to endure three months without release for that little episode, he has been so very obedient and helpful ever since.