Unsatisfactory

There's more to a relationship than dick size.

Lots of good advice here, some bad advice. The moral of the story is, just because one woman found you unsatisfactory doesn't mean they all will. As the cliche goes, there is a lock for every key. Some girls cannot handle a porn-sized dick. They will be glad you are average if you learn how to use what you've got. Some girls feel insecure dating a GQ model. They will be glad to have a guy who isn't vain and has skills to bring to the other table besides a good jawline. Bottom line - do what you can do, and do it well, and you will find someone who finds you satisfactory.

You are a victim of the US public education system that has spent the last 20 years doing everything it can to neuter masculinity in young males. what you have is incurable and unless you actively recognize where in your self that has been underdeveloped, you will probably suffer with this your whole life. in the olden days young men were taught to have confidence. now women in the education system are doing everything they can to turn young men into soulless vessels designed solely to cater to their feminist ideals

wake the fuck up

Don't think he was going for anti-feminism

Enjoy your wife the most you can , it would be fair to let her on occasion have a man that maybe you both choose so that she can be sexually fulfilled as well

I honestly believe your cock size will increase, and confidence grow the more often you let another man suck your cock and drain your balls. And from sucking cock. I suck cock and my cock has grown the past year.

I'm female and my first thoughts are man up, I want a strong man mentality not someone that's putting themselves down or having no confidence.
Regardless of the size of your penis it's how you use it not the size.
In my younger days I remember sleeping with guy with a small penis and boy did he make up for it, he had me double up with orgasms before he even put his penis inside me and to be honest if he had stopped there I would have been very happy but he didn't!
I've also slept with a very large penis, yes it filled me up! Little uncomfortable if I'm honest, shame it was over so quick, he rolled over thinking his big penis satisfied me, give me that small penis back!

Now i have seen and been with wuite alot of dicks now, and i have to say, the biggest are never the best, and the guys who look drop dead gorgeous are never the best fucks ether. its the guys in the middle, adverage size cock and adverage looks that always give the best sex and the one thing they always have in common? Confidence! such a turn on, combine that with the right mix of giving and receiving, i will suck a guys cock harder, longer and better if he has gone down on me first. plus, eye contact, no matter what position, if he make sure we are glaring into my eyes as he fucks me, it makes it so much better.
soph x

Spank her.

I'm not kidding. I'm having an affair and I decided I was never going to have a relationship in the way it's worked out between me and the wife. She's got no respect for me and no interest in sex.

I have a fetish for spanking and dominance and yet in my marriage I am down trodden and submissive.

Met this girl and told her that I was into spanking and I like to be in control. The more I spank and the more I decide things like what we are doing and when and where, the keener she is. I now text her meet me at specified location say a café and I will tell her what time and what to wear.

Basically the more demanding I am the hotter she is.