I don't think I cheated .......

I read this a couple weeks ago and just reread. I noticed the OP never said how she would feel if he kissed a pussy and gave the clit a tongue poke. I would not be able to get over that some guy is walking around KNOWING you kissed his cock and knowing who you are. Cheating is doing something unfair or dishonest and in a relationship should be a mutual understanding. Here you may have opened Pandora’s box so you should discuss boundaries or end up each pushing the lines further til they break. Those below that say oral isn’t cheating are right IF their spouse understands the same rules. Otherwise I doubt their spouse would agree.

You made your case. It's okay by you to do that, just a bit of silliness, yea? Next time he is out after work and you are home with the kids playing mom, it better be okay for him to flash his junk at some random after work party and kiss on some pussy. Or even better, maybe all the drunk women get to lust after his cock and give it a kiss. No bitterness, no bullshit. All in good fun.

In the end, I think its an opportunity to really have an open discussion about what is acceptable boundaries in the sexual aspect of your relationship. Some couples can define the differences in their love, their partnership, and sex. Some cannot. It is a defining moment.

If you were my wife, oh yea, we would ve having that talk.

Oral is not cheating!

If I was your husband, I would put the ball in your court: I would fuck another girl and claim all I did was lick her Vagina, and that it was nothing but drunken fun and you are overreacting.

If I was the guy who got his dick kissed by you (You probably did way more than you are willing to admit) I would be so happy. That alone shows I am superior to your husband. Walking around knowing that another man's wife worshiped my dick is amazing. That guy thinks you're a whore and your husband is a chump loser.

If you husband is willing to stay with you knowing all this, he is a cuck. That doesn't have to be a bad thing, because if he is, then the cuck life awaits him and you.

Kissing another man's cock is cheating.

Even if you gave the guy head it wouldn’t be cheating. That’s just oral. He’s overreacting

Are you m or f. Do you want your girlfriend/wife kissing a mans cock?

My wife's girlfriends brother was complaining that girls in Indiana are all lousy kissers.
Her friend looked at my wife and said, "are you going to let him get away with that?!"
My wife took him by the shirt front and pushed him against the wall - put her arms around his neck....and proceeded to French him for a very long time.
She finished by slowly "tongue-fucking" his mouth, while grinding her crotch against his leg....feeling his large boner against her thigh.
By this time his hands were down into the back of her shorts & panties squeezing her butt cheeks hard!......then she broke away and said, "some of us are pretty good kissers!"
He nodded and tried to grab her as she danced away.
Several months later she told me about this.....while she fucked atop me like crazy!
I couldn't help it - the images of them doing that made me cum 3 times that night!

Not cheating!
I'm also 28 and this past January my husband and I were in Las Vegas the same time at the adult video awards. For fun, we got tickets to fan's day. I got a few pics of my husband with some female performers and he took a few pics of me with some of the male performers.
I was posing with one of the new male actors and he told me it's ok to put my hand on his crotch. He was wearing jeans and I could tell he big and very hard. My husband thought it was funny and took the pic.

I don’t think it’s cheating, but it’s a grey area. When my wife got implants she showed them to everyone and let everyone feel them, it kind of turned me on seeing all of my wife’s friend’s husbands squeezing my wife’s big fake boobs. She didn’t do it behind my back too often, but when she did she would let me know.

I never understood why married people have such hang ups when it comes to sex. My wife was allowed to do with ever she wanted. I would rather know what she is doing than her going behind my back and having sex with other guys or women. I never had any interest in being with anyone else but she did and she was honest about it. We talked about it like adults. Just because we are married doesn't mean that I own her like property. And I am secure in my manhood that I don't feel threatened with her fucking other men it's just sex after all. And a marriage is built on more than sex.

Kissing a penis or giving head is not cheating!
My wife gives head to my friend a few times a month.
It started out as a silly dare because he'd went to a bad divorce and my wife couldn't stand his b*ch wife.
Since he's not dating anyone, my wife goes to his place a few times a month and blows him. Our agreement is 'oral only'.
Both promised not to f**k.

No. Not even close. If he THINKS you did, then he is projecting his own guilty conscious onto you.

You sure did cheat. Respectable wife would keep her books and mouth closed off to all men

You sound very insecure.

Stop being a dickhead this is obviously a most decent woman.

You guys know this whore op did more than that. I bet she bent over for that cock and let him drain his balls in her pussy and now is trying to play the victim. Typical woman. Always someone else's fault, always the aggrieved party.

Let me guess, you have trouble keeping a woman.

Your just a prick not everyone lives by your gutter values arsehole

So I guess if he just licks a different pussy once it ain't cheating. Next time your going to take the whole cock then a load and say it ain't cheating. Your just another cumdumpster whore .

And you're an ass.

Piss off prick.

That's a bunch of bullshit. He's picking up extra work and you're getting drunk and kissing cocks. You are a cheat.

No way get fucked you smart arse.

In this case it was not just drunken fun. Yes, you cheated on him. Sorry sister but unless you and your husband had some preexisting agreement between the two of you allowing for such type of behavior then yes you cheated. iWhat if it was a blow job and not a kiss would you consider it cheating? Or, in your drunken state, someone suggested all the women fuck the biggest penis what about that? If the tables were turned and it was a biggest labia contest and your husband gave another woman's pussy a quick kiss and poke with his tongue would you consider it cheating? With your logic any guy would love to be around you when drunk. I'm down to hang anytime btw.

Shut up you dope