Wife asked
So the wife and I were laying in bed. Just winding down after a long week. Then she just up and asked me, "Would you ever let me fuck you with a strap on?" Now, I have had sex with men and I am always on bottom if penetration occurs. She doesn't know this. As far as she knows, I'm straight.
I didn't know how to answer. I was sure that it was some sort of set up. I said, "A strap on? Hell I don't know. What made you think about that?" She then referenced a conversation we had a while back about what it would be like if we were able to switch sex organs. We both said we would masturbate like crazy. She said she'd like to fuck me if she had a dick and I had a pussy.
I said this hoping she would turn me down. I said, "I tell you what. You let me fuck you in the ass and I'll let you." I was certain she would shut up because she has always been against anal. She said, "Deal!"
Wife and I do enjoy ass play. I asked her to get a strap on and fuck my ass. She hesitated and I knew she wasn't geared for it. I asked why not? She said because I know you, you would want the real thing after that and I don't want that.
Very wise lady leave it at that Buddy
I have used a double ended dildo on my husband a few times. We've done my pussy to his ass and ass to ass. Both were enjoyable.