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Am I a virgin?
I'm 21 and never had sex, the reason for my question is...
I masturbate a lot, I have a big toy and I can fully penetrate it inside me, I often use other things, like deodorant cans which I can also put fully inside me.
Do I actually have to have sex with another person to class myself as not a virgin?
Don't listen to anybody who believes in an outdated socio-religious construct that's mainly forced on women, but also used to oppress the following: men who may or may not be gay/bi, people with disabilities, the mentally ill, and people on the autism spectrum of disorders. To me, if you don't consider yourself to be a virgin, then you're not a virgin. Don't let anybody tell you otherwise. It's a bullshit societal and religious construct. I'm not a virgin, never have been and never will be.
Your a virgin as far as not having intercourse with a male, I was in a similar situation to yours when I was a young girl. I started having lesbian sex with an older women when I was thirteen years old, I was vaginally penetrated with her fingers first and then with vibrators and dildo's. I was sixteen years old before I had sex with a boy, but I was far from being a virgin