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I am a older teen that is about to go on a date with a boy that's in a few of my classes. However I'm not sure if it's an actual date or like he was joking around, were going to a movie and he said he'll pay and while I trust he'll do as he says i know its because he's a man of his word, I am honestly not sure if he's interested. We flirt a lot but I'm really bad at reading signs, I don't know if we are just flirting to flirt or if he's honestly interested.
I occasionally run my fingers lightly across his back when I pass, and the first time he reacted by staring at me for while and saying that my touch was really gentle and I took it as a compliment. He also pokes me a lot and makes a big show of touching my curves. Me and one of my girlfriends were talking and we sort of forgot that he was there and began discussing bra's and I guess she was curious if her breast were bigger than mine and said that she was a B and I sort of just laughed lightly and said no darling I'm DD I just prefer baggy clothing and then he piped up and said oh god and sort of gaped at me like a fish for a reWe've also talked about things we've done in the past as a normal conversations and he admitted to sucking a cock before and having a guy suck his, and I fessed up to having my pussy eaten by my ex girlfriend and fingering her. (We are both bisexual)
However, there have been two occasions in which I have wanted to either sit with him on a bus (which I asked him to sit with me and he agreed but ending up moving last second, only to seemingly regret it an hour in when he complained his shoulders hurt and I said I would have massaged them had he sat with me, but we texted to whole trip in a flirty manner) or work with me as a lab partner (In which he immediately turned to me and said he was working with another girl in our group, however a reasonable explanation for this one could be that the other girl in our group was a girl he did not know, whereas I did, and she has resting bitch face and is just generally unapproachable)
I guess, having given you guys a little background info, these are my questions.
1. What are some ways that I can flirt with him to show I am interested.
2. What are tell tale signs that he is clearly interested.
3. How do I tease him? I mean I've teased him a bit before but those were unintentional at the time of doing, what's a way to tease him that will maintain his interest in me?
Thank you for your help, I don't want to be taken as stupid its just guys confuse me, my ex girlfriend was easy to please as I am a girl to and knew how to please her and what to do to keep her interested. But all my male relationships haven't worked out because I can't stay interested or they don't seem interested and I want to know how they fucking think because that shit is difficult. And they say women are difficult to understand PSH.
The biggest mistake girls in your situation make is assuming. Don't make ANY assumptions. While it seems pretty clear he wants to have a relationship with you, isn't it true that the best relationships start off with good communication?
(By the way, I'm a 19 yo guy.)
You probably know this by now but he is interested in you. He can tell you are interested in him and he shows signs of being a horny young guy who is likewise interested in you.
Eye contact is very powerful, hold his gaze just a little longer than necessary. When he speaks to you, give him your full attention, listen closely to what he says, express interest. smile. These are all things which help build interest.