Husband's habit

Men like porn. Too many girls just don't get it

Yes, I've been through this. I divorced her ass.

How can you help? make a video of him fuckin you as much as he likes then he can watch it as much as often as he wants and won't have to search for such trash, instead can get off on you being fucked like there is NO tomorrow.....
but alas your probably a stuck up prude who would never go for this so he has no choice but to watch what he can find..

Life is crazy sometimes. my wife caught me while I was looking at a picture of her sister. That did not go over very well either.

You cheapen your relationship. You may not have a high sex drive, but you can perform oral sex and handjobs. YOU act moral, so understand that the Bible says you are to give him sex every other day and not cheat him unless you both agree for a short time; new testament. You are causing him to sin and look at that perverted stuff. And guess what, it will turn into an affair one day because that stuff messes with your head and then someone comes along and offerst it. Just because because your body is changing doesn't mean you get a pass or excuse not to take care of his needs. It is you who needs to say no to the porn and you who needs to take care of his needs three to four times a week whether you feel like it or not, because you made the for better or worse in sickness and health pledge and just because your health is a little different doesn't excuse it. He watches what he does because you don't do what your duty says you should. You need to change and convince him to change or he will be getting off to more than porn. BTW, I'm close in age to you.

Let me get this straight, you've cut your husband off from sex and are completely OK with that and yet you think it's OK to tell him what he can and can't watch when he masturbates to fill the void you created due to your own selfishness.

here's the deal, let him wank off to what he wants and be greatly he's not looking for fulfillment from someone else. Alternately, you could buy some lube, bring him to bed along with a tablet, and find something that turns you BOTH on you jerk off to.

I agree to most of this, but he doesn't need to look at porn as that causes you to want more and more and weird things. She just needs to fulfill him herself.

Hey lady, let your hubby have a sex life since your failing in that department. At least he's not having an affair like I am after being married for 41 years. The wife doesn't want to spread her legs any longer for me so I found another married lady who's more than glad to., your choice!

And that is great for her hubby? You both should come clean and get a divorce. Yeah, as a woman, I'm saying it isn't right what some women are doing by not giving their husbands what they should, but instead of becoming a loser cheater you should've left because she wasn't doing her job. You haven't been married 41 yrs.; you stopped being her husband when you decided to cause another woman to cheat on her husband. Get a divorce player.

My wife has zero sex drive. But unlike you she has sex with me (her husband). It's her gift to me. She dresses up in skimpy clothes for me and will do some flirtatios dance or let me grab her and tie her to the bed. It's her gift to me.

Maybe you should make a gift to your husband.

(BTW, I agree that porn will rot his mind. I went though a phase of it and as she became more willing to play and let me play with her, the need became less and it was actually me that did things like put the computer in a public space in the house)

Proud of you for moving the computer and stopping the porn. It only causes people to want to commit adultery and do things they normally wouldn't. That is a real man and a real wife; anyone can cheat, but a real man will find a way to make it work and a real wife will take care of her husband.

If you forbid him from watching porn (or certain kinds of it,) it will only make it more desirable. You are right in the fact that porn will slowly desensitize a man to real life triggers, but if you lose your drive, it won't matter anyways. Porn is an extreme expression of things that trigger men to be turned on or to orgasm. Whether you like it or not, many of the elements present in porn are the things men like about sex innately, and no amount of "civilizing" them will get rid of that. I understand your issues with the porn industry and the way the women in the videos are treated, but at your age, you must understand that the porn industry didn't invent those fetishes, men did. But to get to my point - I think you need to remember that your husband is not the problem. He chose to marry you because of who you are, and sexist men don't typically spend a lifetime with someone who is as passionate about women's rights as you seem to be. It is easy to be hard on the men in our lives because they are close to us, but the ones closest to us are often the ones who are least guilty. I would save your "fixing" for the men who need it and leave your husband in peace. He's not going to "become" anything he isn't already.

Actually, he needs to quit the porn and she needs to up the blow jobs/hand jobs if she doesn't want to do it.

You certainly have a right to express your opinion to your husband, and there is certainly some truth to what you say. But you also seem to want total control over him, even though you don't wish to participate in meeting his sexual needs. Instead of telling him how degenerate his tastes are (thus driving a wedge between the two of you), perhaps you should spend some time with him exploring more palatable adult entertainment. Speaking as a husband in a very similar situation, I can tell you how much he'd appreciate your interest. Even though you don't feel like having sex, you can still meet his needs by helping to guide his masturbatory activities. It shows you care.

Thank you. A story about a man who doesn't use that as an excuse to cheat and obviously a wife who is trying.

Get over it. I love watching sluts become fucktoys and, furthermore, I love being a fucktoy. I have several partners who's wives don't want sex anymore, so that get it from me. I'm going through menopause too and it has made me hotter- too hot for my husband. I'm happy to meet my needs along with those of men like your husband. When I watch lorn, it excites me to know that those women are getting paid to fuck.

Sick. It will come back on you and the cheater husbands. But, OP, pay attention. Predators like her are out there waiting to hurt people like your husband and you'd be surprised how close they could be. People on this site talk about your sister, or your friend, or someone you see often giving it to your husband. Pay attention before it is too late. If you feel bad now, imagine how you will feel if it is a real live woman.

Whatever, slut.

I am 22 and single female living next door to a person you sound just like and for the past three months your husband has been fucking me silly. Sometimes as much as three times a day.
I know it's wrong and so does he but when we're together our animal instincts kick in and we become as one and man does he ever fill me with his cum.

Yeah it is wrong. You are nothing, but a predator. Hope your future husband that you love does the same. Leave that poor married couple along and find a single man. You are a loser that can't attract anything but a lonely man that is right next door. People do go crazy you know. Won't be fun when she shoots you or you get something from the other persons he will be with, because lets face it, if he gets propositioned at work he won't tell you either.

What a stupid post.

He needs to leave you and that dried out pussy. Let him wank and shut the fuck up.

Fuck you. My husband is being degenerate. It's a moral and self-respect thing. If he wants to jerk it, I'm okay with it, but only to something like lingerie models or something. Even softcore porn would be okay, depending on whether I approved it.

Fuck your "approval" ! Listen to yourself bitch, you can only do what I want. Put the shoe on the other foot what if he said that, you Have to do what I want. You self ricious bitch. Why should he have to cater to you because you are against degrading women, some women may enjoy it! Why don't you grow up and get over it!

Problem is it doesn't ever stop there because you want more. And one day someone will offer it and because you made him week he will probably cheat. You should be helping him jerk to you sexy talking. You are just being lazy and expecting the computer and paper to do what your duty is.

Sorry but lingerie models to wank to? That's lame and he can wank to whatever he wants to. He is probably thinking you are the one in the porn, being so prude and proper but then getting fucked hard and loving it. He needs to leave you. Go be a nun.

What a miserable excuse for a wife you are! You don't care to have sex anymore, then get pissed over your husband watching porn and jerking off. Be fucking happy he wasn't fucking some 18 year old prostitute in your bed. Those women in porn made the choice to do porn for money. You may be disgusted by it but they are taking home a paycheck!

As a women's studies major, I have written papers on how women are abused in porn, so fuck you. The vid he showed me had a poor girl getting inseminated by about 8 guys. Don't fucking even tell me that's not disrespect, at minimum.

Fuck your women's study major and your papers you have written.

Yeah and viewing that and other porn will make him want a real woman and to do weird things. It is never, never enough to just view. You sound smart and I have a college education too and I'm around your age and have viewed such porn. I'm telling you that women like you can see porn and not think much about it, but the men look and want to be with the woman they are seeing, which makes them want women in the workplace and out and about. The first person who is around your husband like this will tempt him or touch him and he will be very susceptible to them. Quit letting porn do your job and simply help him get off. You wouldn't think it, but I think he would rather have a real mouth or at least hands on him than look at a screen or book. Pay attention to the comments you are getting. The man above who said he was in the same boat, but his wife helps him get off. The men above whose wives doesn't help and they commit adultery. The woman above who helps several men commit adultery. These people may be rude, but learn from them for they are teaching you a truth. You need to wake up and reconsider how you desert your husband when it comes to taking care of his needs. If you really care about him and your marriage then start helping him masterbate and give him some sex too.

Take your feminist BS somewhere else! No one put a gun to her head and she probably loved taking all that big cock. You should try it!