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Does He want me to cheat?
Our relationship has always been very honest. We tell each other everything, life goals, joys and fears. I was single and he was in the midst of a divorced when we met. We got to know each other and we clicked and married after about a year of dating.
After a couple of years, finally more of our previous love life came up. I told him I had a three of previous relationship and they were all passing fancies. It was actually about 12, I just thought three would make him feel better. Then I asked him. He was shy at first but he told me that he had 5 previous girlfriends and of course his ex-wife.
He told me everything. His honesty just poured out. He said that all his previous girlfriends and his first wife cheated and relatively openly. I was shocked.
He seemed to need to tell me more so I asked him to be specific. So he told me every detail of his cheating girlfriends and ex-wife, a very hot large-breasted redhead, who I knew before I married him. I saw her with other men in bars and at a private house party with a tall, well built, well as they say tall, dark and handsome man who was a bass player in a very popular local jazz band.
I was really amazed and really curious. So I asked more about them and how they accomplished their escapades. He went into every specific detail including the fact that he watched a few times secretly when he caught them at home a couple of times. I even asked him to tell me how he felt about it. I really did not need to ask. It was obvious considering how turned on he got relating it all. We made incredibly hot love that night while I continued to ask more questions.
Is this normal? I've read about cuckolds. Is it possible he doesn’t realize he is a cuckold? Funny thing is that his story really got to me too. Does he want me to be like them and cheat too?
The thing is, I would never leave him. I now believe it would be great if he willingly gave me permission or even better, willingly asked me to explore and approve of my complete sexual independence.
That is horrible. Maybe since he has only been cheated on then that is all he expects and your being giddy at the thought of cheating is really sick. You shouldn't want to cheat; you should want to show him what a loving relationship is like. GET REAL ALL OF THEM CHEATED AND HE ISN'T WITH THEM TODAY. Doesn't that say enough. Threesomes, cheating, cuck and all may seem fun, but it all has a way of turning on you too. Keep it up and you will be in his past to and it may not be his choosing but yours. Learn from his past cheaters; they soon wanted more and that is what cheating does, it makes you greedy and want more. Be faithful and quit looking for a way to cheat. Either be a real wife or get a divorce.
Also adding to that, you aren't even cheating yet and you already want more. That should be your clue. If you didn't want a real marriage you should've stayed single.
Communicate! That's how you find out. Hopefully, he's a cuckhold and you'll both enjoy it. I wish my husband was. I just cheat.