Needing to expand my family

I knew I was lesbian in junior high. I had a couple of girlfriends in high school and college. After college I wanted a life, and married a man I had met in college as a freshman, and lost my virginity to him. Between college graduation and turning twenty five I had three kids. With a house in the suburbs and an SUV I fit in like my mother and older sister.

It wasn't until I was thirty that my lesbian tendencies returned. I shared these feelings with him, we considered another set of babies. But that isn't what I wanted. My husband let me follow my feelings. Without doubt there was a buildup for lesbian sex. Hanging out at lesbian bars.

After running that sexual repression through I met up with one of my college girlfriends. I am currently, with my husband's help, defining a relationship with her. I won't leave my husband, which is the central issue. I have a husband and a family, a home and a life with him. Whether she can accept that she is my girlfriend in the relationship is the issue she has to come to terms with.

I am asking a lot. My husband has moved to accept her in our life, now she has to come the rest of the way. Her fear that he may find her attractive. I doubt it, but if he does it's something they will have to work that out.

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