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Women friends that won't return the favor
I had 3 close woman friends that came to me at different time's asking me to fuck them when I was single. I loved them, having sex with a friend was the best sex I ever had. Now it's several years later, my marriage ended in divorce. I stayed away from women for a while, I didn't want or was ready for a relationship, I just needed to get laid once in a while. I called on my friends that came to me for sex asking them to help me out this time. Our past sexual relationships never effected our friendships, but being turned down sure did, all 3 pushed me away. I can't help feeling bitter towards them and stopped communicating with them. I'm pushing them out of my life, I feel their not friends since I helped them out when they needed it but they won't help me in my time of need. I wasn't asking them for anymore then they asked me for. I'm really pissed at them.
Maybe you don't go down on the women and make them cum? They need to cum to say yes to sex with you and going down on them for a while until they cum is the best way to ensure they will say yes to sex with you.
A lot of men really don't get how important it is to do whatever they can to help their women have an orgasm. With a lot of men I don't even think it's an issue of not caring if she has an orgasm or not. They (men) just really don't get it so thanks for pointing this out here for others to read. Btw, I totally agree with you that giving her oral is usually the best way. But for you men that don't like giving oral it's not the only way. Even giving her a finger play orgasm will be very satisfying for many women because they are so used to men not giving them any kind of orgasm. If you become one of the minority of men who give a girl an orgasm, you WILL have a lot of girls very interested in you!
Right with you. One of my business group friends, and, FWB, often contacted me only for sex when she was going through difficult times with her job and kids, and, as we got along very well, and I find her very sexy, I responded, sometimes, when I had other things going on. There was never any "relationship" type things, though we did have dinner together a few times. Deal was mostly..She calls or texts, I go to her house, we have sex for a few hours, at times more, then I go home. Cut and dry. "Deb" (name change) calls, we have sex, and I'm done.
When it came to myself, however...She was typically nowhere to be found or unavailable. She called one night for help with an ID and payment issue, from a store, and I went to see her. Took care of the problem for her, and, as she looked good and was wearing really sexy jeans shorts and crop-type top, blonde hair down, I wanted her. I offered to go back to her house, and was declined. Nicely, but, declined. I run for her, do favors, give her a cock filling when she wants, and, one time..One time I want the same sex we'd always had, in return, I get nothing. Got tired of it, and really don't talk to her much lately. Why bother?
Ok, listen...they came to you for sex, and you had sex with them. That does not obligate them to return the favor now. Jeez, what the fuck is wrong with you? Ever think they have things going on in their life and maybe don't want to fuck around? Push them away all you want, but you're just going to end up without friends.
Ever heard of reciprocating!
He helped them out in need...they need to do the same so your argument fails massively