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She asks for a lot
My friend has no problem asking me to help her out when things go wrong, she needs a ride, fix things in her house, I fix her car and even lent her my car, she asks me to help her a lot. I know real friends help each other out, I don't have a problem with that but I need her help, I want to get laid but afraid to ask her. I want her I haven't had sex in a long time, it's become years since I did. I know she's not getting laid, she's not the type that sleeps around or talks about sex and she dosen't date. She has said a couple of sexual things to me, once she was negative about sex, another time she was positive about sex so I have kept it very clean with her. Now when we're together for any reason I'm dying to ask her to have sex with me but I'm afraid of rejection, afraid it would hurt our long time friendship and could sour me from wanting to help her out with her problems, I've done a lot for her as my friend so is asking her for sex a bad thing to do, I mean really it wouldn't kill her to fuck me but I don't want her to be looking down on me thinking yup he's just another horny guy but fact is, I'm being used and it's not like she feels she uses me but as friendship goes she give's very little back so sex would be great. Should I ask her ?
Been there, too many times, with two very good female friends. Both only call or text me when they want or need something, and after awhile, and my doing tons of favors, I got tired of "favors for nothing". Helped one mulch her yard one hot afternoon, using my truck (and back), really worked hard, and her being in tiny, blue shorts and a cut-off t-shirt didn't hurt my desires to have at her.
She made us dinner after we cleaned up, we hit the couch, and my brain said "You've worked your ass off for her today..Time to get some action". Made my move on her, she went for it, probably considering it as payback for all I'd done for her, not only that day, and I hauled her thin, fit-bodied blonde ass to her bedroom and fucked the hell out of her.
My other long-time friend, very pretty blonde, street-savvy, and knows how to get what she wants from men. I've been taken from her less than most others, but still given in too often. She usually asks for money, not physical favors like the other one does. I did pay her to-be landlord a deposit to let her move into a new apartment, and, took her invite to visit after she moved in. Even then, she hit me up for cash, and I thought...Lay down and let's get naked first. Enough's enough with me shelling out money and getting nothing in return from you.
We didn't that day, but, she acknowledged I'd done a lot for her (while inserting her soft hands into my shirt and on my chest), and that she "owed me what I probably wanted from her". Her next request, I'm fucking that little body into next month, now that I know she's aware I want her.
She discussed twice about sex means, she's hinting you, why don't you prolong the discussion. You didn't mention she's single or in relationship, if single ask her howz she managing without men, if she's having a bf try to know her experience with him, some where you'll get chance to turn on you, as a man we have to bragging into it. Once they're open minded everything goes in you're expecting directions. If you feel your friendship goes to breakup than discuss the topic as narrating story like you offered by some lady but you rejected it, definitely she ask you why did you missed the chance. That's more than enough to attract her towards you, All the best!!
After a few drinks
You are being used. Tell her to give up that pussy or no more favors
Yep, he's been friend-zoned. It'll be harder to get her to have sex with you now than if you'd made your move early. You feel like you've done a lot for her, and now she should be nice to you. The thing is, women don't see sex as an exchange. You have to make your move now. If she rejects you, move on. You'll end up bitter and celibate if you keep thinking that your kindness will get you sex.