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Am I his girlfriend or friend?
I'm a 15 year old female and I met one of my best friends online about three years ago.
He lives in America and has a deep voice with a British accent, more specifically a Black Country West Midlands Accent. I'm not gonna lie, his accent REALLY turns me on.
Anyways, so after talking for three years he decided he would come visit me in Canada. I didn't know he was coming, so when my mom randomly drove me to the airport I was really confused.
So, we kinda sat in the airport for a good 15-20 minutes, after a while of waiting, I started asking my mom a ton of questions like: "Are grandma and grandpa coming?" And "Who are we live picking up??"
Before she would answer I felt a pair of arms wrap around my neck and my friend whisper "Would you rather see your grandparents? I can go home"
I almost screamed. I was so happy to see him. I started crying and jumped into his arms. He held me and whispered "You're so much more beautiful in real life"
He's 19, I'd like to point that out. So it's illegal for us to be dating. But when we got home I showed him my room and where I sat when we'd Skype, etc. He then sat down on my bed and I sat beside him. I kissed his cheek and he grabbed my hands, pushing me down on the bed.
Long story short he fucked me while my mom was in the other room. I was a virgin, so we had sex twice.
The first time he was really gentle and sweet, but after that he told me he had dreamed of fucking me ever since we got to know eachother/Skyped. So, he did.
I don't know if I should be happy or not. I'm still really confused. He treats me like his girlfriend, but like a friend around our parents. So...how do I ask what he sees me as? A friend? Girlfriend? Idk.
Communication is the key. He may see what he is doing as being respectful to your parents. At the same time, he might not know what you consider "girlfriend" behavior and he might think he is being respectful to you. In so far as the sex, making love is fine --that is, going slow, gentle touch, etc...-- but, like every other woman on earth and some percentage of men, one day, you will want to be fucked hard, have your hair pulled, and your butt, soundly, spanked. Given that your mom was in the next room, it is unrealistic to expect him to make you howl and penetration alone orgasms are rare indeed anyway. If he paid for the flight then his interest is as deep as you evaluate how much of a sacrifice it was for him. If you have the money, surprise him. Just in case, be prepared for the worst but hope for the best. If his bed has room for you --even if it is one on top of another-- then he may well be yours; time will tell. If, on the other hand, yours is not the only vulva there and you have no desire to check it out, it might be time to leave and put him behind you.
Friend only
He has a girlfriend
You were a nitgch on a belt