Wife got involved with a co-worker
My wife and I have an open marriage. We started having sex outside our marriage 2 years ago and up to this point it has worked great for us. My wife is an attractive 31 year old woman, she works out regularly, has a great body and an increible curvy ass.
Ever since we got married I always saw men calling her all the time, flirting and expressing interest in being with her; my wife has always been a very sexual woman, she just likes to have sex and particularly enjoys rough sex, when one gets so horny and crazy that you just grab her and fuck her hard all over the room, she loves that.
Our relationship actually started because she was cheating on her fiancee at the time with me, I knew the kind of woman I was marrying and I knew it was a matter of time before she started cheating on me as well; before she would do that, I decided to tell her about exploring our sexuality with other people, she was confused at first that I would be bringing up something like that, but eventually she understood and embraced the entire concept.
In the last 2 years I think she has been significantly with more men than I have been with women, I was ok with that, as I said I always knew who I was marrying, I knew she wanted to get fucked by different men and as long as she would come back home everynight to be with me, I was ok with that.
Recently I found out that my wife has been fucking a man who works with me. She must have met him when we got together at my house to review some documents; being the big slut that she has become she probably flirted with him quickly while I went to the bathroom and let him know in a few words that she was "available"; as I mentioned my wife is a an attractive woman so Im sure my "friend" didnt need much convincing to take my wife to a cheap hotel room and fuck her every way he wanted.
I found out about them because a friend from work told me in confidence that this other co-worker (the one who is fucking my wife) has been talking around the office, telling people that he is fucking my wife behind my back
Now, I was ok with the whole open marriage agreement between my wife and I, but I think this is making me look like an idiot in front of my business circle at work. I have an executive position and I have an image to mantain, I dont need to look like the idiot husband whose wife is sucking another mans dick behind his back!
I understand that my wife is not breaking any rules because of our agreement, but I cannot tell everybody at my office that my wife and I have an open marriage deal, that would be like inviting all the men in my office to run to my house to try to fuck my wife and to be honest at this point I think it is possible that she would fuck all of them!
Not sure what to do at this point.
We have had an open marriage for the past eleven years and it has worked great. My wife and I have enough common sense to make sure our little secret remains between us and the people that we are seeing. You need to sit your wife down and have a talk with her. `
Tell her to go to work and flirt with someone else and say he's got a tiny dick ;)
As long as you two are happy with the arrangement, enjoy the experiences.
I agree that you should not tell anyone at work about your open marriage. You need to amend the open marriage agreement to explicitly state that she cannot fuck anyone that you work with. Unless she has developed an emotional tie to this guy, she shouldn't have any problem ending it with him.
You have to talk to your wife. She may have an idea or two of her own on how to deal with this. If she cares about you, she'll want to help keep your reputation intact, if only because it benefits her to have you be successful at work.