I want to cheat on my husband

Keep the fantasy just that. Too many times too many issues develop when people try to go beyond fantasy. First and foremost ask yourself what can go wrong and I guarantee the downside will easily outweigh any pleasure to be gained. Are you willing to risk that generous and wonderful man? Your home? Your marriage? Suppose he may go along know but either one of you has a change of mind later? What about residual damage like resentment or side effects like STD's? How will you deal with a possessive and jealous side bang should some other guy not want to leave things at that level. My guess is if you go through with it you will see a change in your husband and you'll have a better chance of getting an ex-husband out of this than you will of having any long term benefits from a few moments of pleasure as you try to imitate a porn film. No self respecting guy that is true to himself as a man will remotely entertain this and will dump you in a New York minute. For the slutty whore you want to become a guy needn't get married. Why would any guy want to risk so much of himself for a woman like you? What makes you so special? Believe me, if he found you he will find someone else. Honey, some things are better left unsaid so just keep this to yourself.

You would be "breaking the rules" and considering you are asking for advice I will tell you to don't go there and just keep it to yourself. In your own words you wonder how your husband would feel about it if you bring it up. You're married 10 years, how do you not already know how your husband would feel? You say you are sexually bored with your husband? How are you bored and why are you bored?
Are you trying things to liven things up with your husband and if so, what? How open and receptive to your husband are you? Your comment about not wanting him to watch you and doing things he may not approve of leads me to believe you may not go along with his sexual requests, his desires or otherwise fully engage yourself with him. Are you one that doesn't recipricate oral or can't get him off orally? Do you let him take you anally? There's probably some things you and your husband can do as a couple to spice things up and not resort to cheating. First you two need to have a sit down and serious discussion and focus on the two of you to see what the both of you can do to communicate better and keep this between yourselves.

I've known more than a few people that have gone through what you seem to be experiencing and in no case did things go well or end well for the marriages and/or couples involved.

As a husband i love sit bottom bed seeing wife lower her self on cock or lady with dildo so can see boobs bounce look on her face her pussy holding cock or toy but other way round want her sitting on my face watching girl ride cock would like happen 1 time befor to late

I've been wondering this also. Ever since my first boyfriend got stolen away by a jack-friend I've been attracted to men that attract lots of women. I'm sorry but I can't help how I feel but I always want men that fool around with other women. Most guys like that don't want a steady or a wife.

My husband was the closest to that, that chased me and fell for me. Anyways, when I met my husband he pretty much only had women friends. I suspected, and hoped, there was more going on but I didn't want to wreck anything.

Anyways, it looks like nothing has ever happened between my husband and other women. His best female friend told us both that she is available for threesome with us, if we want but he won't. He doesn't want to mess up their friendship.

I know it is horrible but over time I've basically began obsessing on my husband cheating on me. I LONG to be able to turn a blind eye to his philandering ways. I'm glad of this post as I often feel horrible for wanting this

My husband and I have been married for the past 7 years, I am 34 and he is 52 and because of a medical condition he no longer is interested in sex and one night last year he told me if I wanted sex on the side go ahead and do it but don't tell him about it. He didn't want to know and being I am a stay at home wife I have more than enough time to have a good time with who ever I want.
For the past month I have four guys who I wont say their age but young studs that keep me more than satisfied.

I have not been able to have sex with my wife for almost over five years now , thanks to medication side effects . well any way I yearn for another man to please my wife . It drives me crazy day in and day out just thinking about it . she 60 years old and owns her own consulting firm . she very attractive and I do see other men checking her out still . and I don't even have to be there if it were to happen. it would be a dream come true for me . so yes you are right ! men do think about other men fucking their wife . good luck to you .

I'll take care of your wife

Many years ago I found out through a friend that my wife had been meeting one of her work guy friends after work and during lunch for several months and she letting him fuck her. When I first found out about this I was furious and wanted to take my gun and shoot the bastard. Well, fast forward some. I told the wife to tell me just exactly what they did upon each meeting. After she started telling me all the details of him pulling her panties down and cumming in her pussy and mouth, and how he would finger her just about everyday, OMG, 180 degree turnaround for me. Those stories would make me so damn horny every time she would tell me, my precum was flowing like a steady stream of fluid. We later arraigned a threesome where I watched this guy fuck my wife in the back seat of our car on a lunch break and I told him to keep fucking her because I loved the thought and picturing of him pulling my wife's panties down and sticking his big dick in her pussy, cumming in her and then she would come home with a cum soaked pussy from another mans dick. That's been 25 years ago and I still encourage her to bring home strange cum in her pussy and panties at age 57. We've been married for 40 years and I love her being a slut whore to this day.

You are indeed one lucky man . I have always wanted a wife like yours . good luck .

Sounds like a open marriage is about to be born. You better ease into it just test the waters some, cause he might be mad thinking you want someone else up inside you. Making you moan with pleasure, feeling your body heat, pumping you to a hard orgasm. Yea you need a don't ask don't tell outside sex life. Maybe some rough sex, just open your mind and body to different erotic experiences. Maybe some light S & M, spitting, rimming, toe sucking, pissing, anal, fisting, bisexual doing, just be sexually nasty. Clean up go home and enjoy your husband company and family life, watch some TV kiss each other goodnight, lay your head on your pillow with a satisfied grin. Shit now I thinking about calling my wife telling her I going to be a little late getting home and go stripped my girlfriend!