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I'm wearing a butt plug right now
I'm a straight married guy in my 30s, but over the last few years I've discovered I have a bi-curious streak and enjoy fingering myself. Yesterday I finally took the step of buying my first toy, a soft pink plug, and it felt great while masturbating last night. Tonight I decided to try leaving it in surreptitiously under my clothes for a while, and I absolutely fucking love it. I can tell already I'm going to become one of those people who likes to secretly wear a plug at work all day (which is not something it even occured to me that people did until my enjoyment of all this inspired me to look it up just now). Meanwhile, I've told my wife exactly none of the above. Honestly we have a pretty conservative sexual relationship, and I'm not sure how she'd react to my newly discovered gay-ish side, and in any case this is a pleasure just for myself anyway. But it's no fun if I don't tell SOMEBODY, so I guess you're it, Internet. I'm a straight guy with a rod of silicone up his ass, and it's the BEST THING EVER!
Damn, dude. It might be time to crawl outa that closet, strap on a pink thong, grab a rainbow flag, and head to the front of the next parade that comes by.
You might as well plan on telling her as she is going to find out eventually one way or another; when two people live together, keeping a secret is like lying to yourself, pointless. It will be far better for her to find out during controlled circumstances besides, anal sex is -and this surprises many people- more common among heterosexual couples than gay or lesbian couples. The definition of being gay is being able to fall in love with another male. The anal cavity is surprisingly sensitive and when you take into account the pleasure of stimulating your prostate, one can only wonder why more men don't have anal play as part of their regular HETEROSEXUAL sex life. Certainly, it is possible that your wife will react strongly to the initial thought and ask you, in a kind of knee jerk reaction, if you are going gay on her or something to that effect. However, it is also possible to introduce her to the concept of anal play (so many people are certain it is going to hurt that the surprise alone (that is the surprise that it is pleasurable) is enough to help people want to do it again.) Use a lube shooter (a kind of syringe looking contraption that can shoot lots of lube in and do so deeper than merely using a finger) and prepare her for the experience. My girlfriend and I started out in a similar place and she was terrified but once she experienced an orgasm with the butt plug in, she was hooked. I am very very thick so it isn't a matter of either her tightness or your size, it is more about having something to squeeze against during the orgasm. Start with a finger while your cock is in her and she has a magic wand against her clit. Do not put the finger in with your palm down as you will be going to the emergency room if you do. Using a glove, surprisingly, improves the feel
Nice. Liberate yourself.