Can't help cheating
I am a man who is not yet 35 but has been married and divorced 3 times. I just cannot help flirting with women, old and young I don't care. Most of them tell me to sod off when they are getting my chat up lines but a few don't and my philosophy is that if you try a large enough number of women you will get your desires. But this sort of behaviour is simply wrong for a married man. My last wife found me shagging a hotel room cleaner on our honeymoon, that was my shortest marriage.
But I have found a solution, I have found a swinger. I went along to a "group" of like-minded individuals with a mate of mine. We are both bi and we had been having sex for some time. We got to this house where the "meeting" was to take place and we looked around the rooms and their was action everywhere. Couples, threesomes, larger groups. It was great. My mate decided to go to a room where it was a group of men blowing and fucking. I looked in another room and their was this beautiful women being licked, sucked and fingered by 6 women, she was stunning and firing off orgasms. Well to cut a long and enjoyable story short I pulled her that night and we haven't be separated since. We have a policy of honesty, we both do what we like BUT we tell the other one. In fact because of the groups we regularly attend I have stopped my constant chatting up and flirting and so has my new partner. It gives me a kick to see her enjoying sex with women or men. One of the biggest kicks I got was when one of our groups was gonna put on a bukkake evening, The girls put their names in a hat and the winner was gonna get spunked. My new amazing partner won it and I was one of the spunkers. Her face was running with cum, all her mascara was running. She had it in her ears, up her nose, she had taken an injudicious cum shot in an eye and was half blinded. Her tits were covered with creamy man juice. We then took her into the bathroom and we all pissed over her, men and women. She won that one night but has missed out on every one that has followed but her day will cum again.
I have always had this problem. Nearly always. If I am with a girl for any length of time, I find myself attracted to lots of other women. Some women are more attracted to a man who already has a woman than a single guy, a lot of women in fact. So that is part of it.
Sounds like you have discovered a nice solution to your problem.
I COMPLETELY understand where you are coming from! I have the same issue...however, I just havent been caught....yet!