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Is internet sex cheating?
I met hubby 15 years ago & we've been married for 13 year. In the beginning, he told me that his sex interests were extreme. I didn't understand exactly what I was getting into but I was always a little kinky. I did try the best I could but it was never enough. I had hoped that having dirty sex with him would be reciprocated with loving sex the next time. Time progressed into months and When we did have sex, he had to verbalize whatever he was thinking about and it was always another guy taking me and how I would enjoy it. It was the only way he could climax & I didn't think it was a big deal at the time. Then the verbal senerios- having sex with a black man while he watched. As time progressed, It was wanting me to have it with multiple black men. He hounded me about it for years and I never did Have sex with any BM.
After a While I discovered that his online interests Were not just about the news that day. He was reading stories on interracial sites or alt-ernative sites. We fought over and over about the problems with sex. We separated MANY times. One of those times, I found out that he was putting Ads on sex sites and were talking to men and women.
So fast forward to 15 years- I've endured never being made love to.
No kind or loving forplay or love making. Not once. I think we've had intercourse maybe 18 times in 15 years. I can't think straight about what to do anymore.
So the question is- Is it cheating to talk to women or men about sex as in senerio's that involve him? Is it cheating to shave ,take photos of your cock and send them to women and then talk? Is it cheating to just read sex stories? I'm older than 50 now. Not pretty or skinny and unfortunately, he gave me a std that will never go away.
I feel like my chance of a quality relationship will never happen and I'm gonna die alone. What would you do ? Is he cheating?
Or should I just suck it up like I have for years.
hey young lady I really don't think it would be cheating on your part after that many years for you if you would like to chat about it contact me dbevier1962@gmail .com
Sounds like you are not getting what you want from the relationship.
If your voice is not being heard and you have tried, sounds like you are alone now if you have been separated before and no counseling is happening chances are the same thing is going to happen again.
You will not know if you can find happiness again unless you walk down that road, do not let an STD hold you back.
Thank you for the comment! Having a std is like having lepricy mentally.
Things became physical today and I was honestly afraid I might die.
I told him to leave and was told that if I ever call the police, he will burn my house down with me in it. I changed the locks after "asking permission"
And it's my house. Was my house before we met and I've paid every single home bill myself. - and I had to ask permission.
For me- my std- will always be the reminder, that I gave my happiness and future away. No one wants to go out with someone with herp.
Thanks for letting me vent.