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I am happily married to the woman i have loved for years. the only issue is that her sex drive is really low and while the missionary is her way i am an extremely experimentative and wild guy. I love oral sex and she hates it... so anyways i have to be content with the regular....i am an athletic guy with a lot of time invested outside work into physical sports hence my adrenaline rush is high...at time si feel like having wild sex, but i know if i do that it will hurt her a lot and i stop, i also have tried talking to her about what i want but it does not help... so last week i went to massage parlour for a massage as i had strained my shoulder at the gym, this was a hot asian chick who asked me if i needed a special and i could not stop myself and i got a rocking BJ...however i am extremely worried if i have contracted a STD / STI from that chick. The massage parlour si old and is located at a central market place and the lady claimed to be safe....please advice on what should i do. also how can i satisfy my sexual urge without destroying my marriage...
I am in a similar situation. After menopause my wifes desire for sex fell to almost nothing. Once every few months she wants to fool around. We are 50 and up till a few years ago we had sex 4-5 nights a week, sometime 2 or 3 times a night. The last two years have been miserable for me so I went for a massage while on a business trip and she finished me with a hand job. For $50 I get a woman who will touch me in any manner I want and finish by jacking me of and thanking me for coming in. For me it is the intimate contact I miss, even more than the sex. Just about every time I go on the road, I visit a massage parlor and get a massage and a hand job. I will continue till I find a suitable FWB. To not have some kind of sex life is unacceptable for me and I have explained this to my wife.
There's a nude bar in South Florida where you can get laid at or at least I did a few years ago. One thing's for sure, you ALWAYS wear a condom before you go into that territory. You never know who's got what.