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My psychologist fingered me
I was talking about the fact that my boyfriend likes anal sex, but for me it's too uncomfortable and my psychologist started to ask me questions in a graphic way. One of the first things he said was, "Has he ever fingered it or put his mouth on it before he tries to penetrate?"...I got this nervous feeling in my stomach, but was kind of turned on. He kept asking me things like that and then he got up and was walking around while talking to me. He went behind the chair I was sitting in and put his hands on my shoulders. I froze and then things escalated from there. He sucked on nipples and put his hands in my panties and fingered me...I got really wet, I was so embarrassed and barely moved the whole time...he made his way to my ass and fingered me. It felt amazing, but when it was over I couldn't even look at him. He asked if I wanted to go further, but I told him I had to go.
I don't think I can go back to see him. I liked it, but I'm too embarrassed that I let him do that to me.
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MAJOR professional violation. Report him. That your body responded is nothing more than your body reacting. It doesn't mean that you were comfortable with and/or were okay with what he was doing. It does not matter if it "felt good". He totally violated the doctor/patient relationship and took advantage of you. He is totally in the wrong and what he did was beyond inappropriate. He did sexually assault you.
If you liked it, good. Don't let other people turn it into a bad thing.
That was a professional violation. report him to your state medical board.
That's sexual assault, and you should report it to the police.
I could have stopped him at anytime, its not an assault, don't worry.
Thinking for yourself, there is no need to report him.
Thinking for those who suffer his advances without acceptance, or worse, experiencing emotional trauma, this *is* important.
You need to do your best to protect those who are perfectly vulnerable, and unwilling, and unable to suffer such an invasion in the confidential therapeutic setting. At least let him know that what he did is a violation; one that you feel you permitted, and maybe even enjoyed, or even wanted, in retrospect. BUT, one that can damage others.
Ask him:
1. is this kind of violation something he is OK with doing in his sessions ? If he says "yes", SERIOUSLY, put your desires aside and report him to the Board of Behavioural Sciences....or another therapist (they are mandated to report anyone who may imminently harm children, and they may know how to handle the situation for you, should you be an adult.).
2. If he is contrite, and says NO, convincingly, eventually, then ask him how what he did could harm someone ? (if he doesn't know why it is dangerous or wrong, then nothing he says will lead to a change, or to trustworthiness) Consider his response for reasonableness.
3. Ask him what he is going to do to take a look at his behavior, and make a change so that he does not do this within his sessions anymore. (consider his response for reasonableness)
4. Ask him if he wants to apologize to you for what he did, regardless of your ambivalence about the outcome. (consider his apology for sincerity)
If he gets past 1,2, 3, 4 and you realize he experienced a weak moment that is unlikely to recur.....FUCK HIS BRAINS OUT!!!
if not, do not go back, and do report him to another therapist, or the Board of Behavioral Health.
If you realize you were taken advantage of, go to the cops.
Lots of Grey between the black and the white, but what you accept for yourself, may not be safe for others.
I wish i was your boss. i'd finger you everyday before and after work
Not relevant. As someone in a position of authority, particularly with you being vulnerable, it actually does constitute sexual assault.
...If you liked it, go back. No shame in that.