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Is my sister sexually attracted to me?
I know it is a strange question, but I need to know what's going on/what I can do to solve this problem. I've always been overprotective of my little sister (she's 19, I'm 23). I love her to death and I will make sure she's safe.
She called me crying one night and told me her boyfriend beat her up and she was afraid. I couldn't convince her to call the cops so I did and I met them over at her place as they were hauling her now ex-boyfriend away. While the cops were taking him away he was threatening to kill us both next time he saw us. My sister just stood there with a blank look in her face. The police asked if she wanted an ambulance, she said no. I convinced her to let me driver her to the hospital and luckily the worse thing she had were bruises.
We drove to my house and she asked me if she could stay with me. Her boyfriend owns the house they were living in and she didn't want to stay there. So I helped her pack up everything I could, we filled the bed of the truck, and I moved her in with me.
There are a couple problems. She doesn't have a job and every time I come home from work she has to run over and hug and kiss me as if I was gone for years. She also never wears clothes at home. The most she wears is her bra and panties or a long t-shirt. When she wears the long t-shirt she doesn't have anything on under it. She constantly flirts with me. She sits on my lap half naked, rubs up against me, calls me sweetie and honey. She'll wrap my arm around her and put my hand on her breast. When she bends over in front of me she does it so I can see her private parts. Yeah, that's how I found out she doesn't wear anything under the t-shirt.
She craves attention and the other day I got mad at her and told her she needed to get a job, even something for a couple hours a week and help with the bills. She looked at me with pure shock in her eyes and started to cry like a baby. She then asked me if I didn't love her anymore and I held her all night until she calmed down.
Why would she act like this? When we were growing up she was so strong and so smart. I really think she needs to see a therapist because she depends on me like a child depends on their parents.
I'm not sure what to do. She wants to cuddle with me all the time and expects me to hold her in my arms whenever she's upset, which is all the time. I've even let her lay in bed with me when she was so upset I was afraid to leave her alone all night. Now she's been coming to my bed every night and I feel uncomfortable but it makes her even more upset when I tell her to go to her bed. So I just let her sleep in my bed now. I have to push her over to the other side of the bed during the night or she'll hang onto me all night as I don't like how my body reacts.
I started thinking about the way she acts and she acts more like a girlfriend than my sister. Do you think she's sexually attracted to me? How do I get her to behave like a sister again?
Thanks
Oh: For all you pervs out there who are going to want to know what she looks like Maggie Gyllenhaal but with bigger breasts. For you other freaks yes we did fool around like any other kids when we were little but that stopped a long time ago.
I am extremely attracted to my sister. I thought it was wrong to lust my sister, but as time went on. I had to instigate flirting and finally she gave into my intentions. I wish my sister came on to me like your sister did, then I could have persuaded her to have sex with me earlier. I wanted my sister because she is very good looking and has a body that drives me wild. All I can is, if your sister wants you, please her. There is nothing like having a sexy beautiful sister for your own
Have fun with it. She wants you to
When I was 16 I had my first BF and he was 19 and we started in having sex and it was great, made me love him even more then it became abusive because I wouldn't let him share me with his friend. After the third time of getting beat up my step dad noticed all of the bruises and questioned me and I confessed as I was crying my heart out he became my security.
As thing progressed I thought I was getting over my lack of a BF and my X caught up with me one afternoon and beat the crap out of me breaking my right leg from kicking me and the neighbors came to my rescue, called the cops and when they arrived two of the men had the creep tied up laying in the snow for it took like 40 minutes for them to get there because of the amount of snow we had at the time, as they were hauling him off to jail he too made all sorts of threats to me and my neighbors that he was gonna kill us all and I couldn't stop crying finally the ambulance arrived and took me to the hospital and they gave me a shot to calm me down.
My dad met me later at the hospital and he w as furious saying that creep better never come around when he's there or he just might kill him and dad held me in his arms and once again I felt safe. For over a year I never wanted to leave dad's side and at 19 it became sexual and to this day it remains. I am 23 now and still live with my stepdad.
Go to her kindly, and tell her what you've noticed.
Ask her if she has a 'thing' for you, and if your observations of her behavior where her unconscious behaviors, or intended.
Then listen, do not judge, and accept what you hear.
Finish by telling her, I love you, and am glad we could speak about this.
If she isn't receptive, move on to something else you planned to do that day. If she is, ask her what is the next step she would like to take ?
asking is better than silence or guessing.
She sounds very sweet. She's been through a hard time and you might be the only person in the world that she trusts. Be kind and don't push her and treat her like a sister. You'll know her for the rest of her life and she really needs you right now.
Mate she wants love and affection, but is looking for it in the wrong place. The abuse by her boyfriend has left her messed up emotionally so it's normal that she'd cling to the person who loves her the most - you - and interpret her feelings as romantic ones. After all having sex is the most intimate act you can do, and she wants intimacy, to feel loved.
I totally agree about her needing therapy. She needs to understand that your love is of a brother, and hopefully the therapist can help her sort her emotions out.
Seems she as a deep crush on you and what are your thoughts when she sits on your lap.
And walks around in her panties and bra.
She must be a sexy sister and its up to you to stop her being that way.
Or let her carry on secretly with no one else knowing.