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Should I run?
I met a man named James. He's an 'older' man to me but quite attractive.
He owns two companies; an accounting one and a financial planning one. He works out and stays fit- amazing body.
On our first date, I met him at a hotel/bar. I thought we were going to have dinner there, and I was a little early so I went to the bar for a drink. When he arrived (and we'd only met for a few seconds before this occasion) he covered my eyes from behind and then gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek.
He then suggested we sit down on the lounges and sat right next to me, thigh-to-thigh. All very comfortable and touchy-feely for someone you've only just met. He also handed me my glass a couple of times and told me to finish my drink.
He then asked if I wanted to get something to eat and led me out by the hand. He said that we'd take his car- turns out we're eating at his place.
He did try to sleep with me, but I declined. He was very insistent, but at the same time took it well when I asked him to take me back to my car.
I did let him kiss me. I noticed he was very rough and dominating. Far too confident and dominating for a woman you've only just met. At the same time, he was genuinely a nice person. Just... He seems controlling.
So what's the deal? Should I run?
I read this to my wife. "Rich handsome, fit guy -- first date sex - not a good idea -- to keep him calling you, if you are 50 50 on him, keep him 50 50 on you -- Blowjob."
Our first date was iffy -- went well at first, then ran out of things to talk about -- the 2 drinks wore off. Dropping her off "i want to show you some appreciation. Thanks for tonight. " she unzips me and sucks my dick. Making light of what she is doing, she stops -- talking to my dick "man you grew, enough appreciation? if not, hold my head down for blowjob."
Her party joke: My doctors says good news bad news on your MRI; First the good news -- it was negative. Band news: There's man size Palm Imprint on the back of your head.
We went out again and this time he caught me by surprise when he started in kissing me first on my lips then onto my neck and he got to me and he ended up fucking me in my puss and my ass for nearly six hours. God my puss was sore and that isn't nothing compared to my ass could believe all 9 inches of him was in me there and stretched out to take him all in me. My nipples gave me away for once4 he started in playing with them and then sucking on them I became his to do with what he wanted and I got it now I don't think I can refuse his demands upon me what he makes for his cock broke me and I am his to do with what he wants, any time, any where.
Okay dear. From a man's point of view, "RUN!!" and don't stop. I'm afraid if you keep seeing him he is going to become obsessed and then when you try to break it off it's going to turn out bad for you. I'm betting this guy is a physical abuser. And I don't mean the fun sexual kind. He keeps up appearances in public, treating you nice and gentle where others can see, but in private he becomes aggressive and forceful This means to me he's been through an abusive relationship before and has probably been found out and doesn't want to risk another police incident. But now he's looking for a new victim. RUN GIRL as fast as you can. You're playing with fire here.
To late for he's made me his and I submit to him when he wants and do what ever he wants.
If you go on a third date be sure to tell us all about the forced sex he had with you. Do not leave out any details either, love to hear about popped buttons and torn panties.
Any updates for us please? It seems that you like him now...
You'd better not see this guy again...he may eventually lose his ability to control himself and could force himself upon you. Don't go back.
RUN! He's only acting nice to you in public it means he cares about his appearance not you. It sound like you have some self esteem issues as well don't let him treat you like this because you think "your nothing special" he's a class A jerk and doesn't deserve you let a lone a warm corpse. Being forceful like that isn't being 'genuinely nice". Find someone who treats you good when your alone and when your out, you deserve it.
I saw him again recently. I think I'm going to have to stay away... I can't decide if he's dangerous or not. He took me out to dinner and then up to a lookout with a beautiful view. Later he drove me back to his place, and it was then I felt for the second time in my life that I might be forced to do something I didn't want to. He's so strong- he did stop short of having sex with me or touching me like that, but there were times when I was trying to stand up and leave. I said 'walk me out to the car', but he wouldn't let me. I was physically fighting him, pushing him away.
But then he was so gentle and caring once I'd actually made it outside. How far is too far?
He messages me or speaks to me on the phone every day, and he's not seeing any other women. Why me? I'm nothing special. I'm not an easy fuck.
I think he went too far, but then I feel he's overreacting.
Oops. I'm* overreacting, not he's.
You cannot be serious. You're scared he's going to try to rape you, physically prevents you leaving ON THE SECOND DATE, and you wonder if you're over-reacting?????
He just wants sex and is trying to speed up the process. Tell him that you're waiting until marriage and he'll never call you again.
Trust your intuition. He seems controlling...he is controlling.