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Taking a shot with my wife's friend
I’ve been married for about 10 years and have 2 kids. I’m not unhappy in my marriage but not totally pleased either. Anyways, about a year ago, I started becoming good friends with one of my wife’s friends. We are together a couple of times per week since our kids share the same after school activities – sometimes with my wife and sometimes without. She is very flirty and I’ve always enjoyed the attention and nothing further.
The past couple of months, I feel that things have heated up and we’ve been flirting more and more. I’ve become really interested in her and want to test things out. Recently, my wife found some flirtatious texts and emails between us and said that she agreed that while they seemed innocent, they were still inappropriate and wanted me to stop contacting her directly. The problem is not only do I not want to stop but I want to take it further.
I feel things are at a point where I need to ‘take a shot’ at the other girl and either get things going or end things completely.
Please do not give any comments about "don't do it man"
This situation is similar to a few I found myself in but as the girl. Obviously every one and every situation is different. But I can say this, you were in prime position to start fucking your wife's friend. You can very well still pull it off but since she called you out on emails text your chances of not getting caught are diminished. Before she found all that out it wasn't a real tangible issue before that. She may have had suspicions and you proved her hunch correct. Now it will always be on her radar. So pulling off fucking her friend, especially more than once, will be that much harder. Without having a back and forth conversation with you about what to do next I would say this. Have a talk to her face to face. Lay out what you want but more importantly what you don't want, for example, get caught. Talk honestly and frankly and make sure she does as well. She will definitely have her concerns too.
Once you both are on the same page you'll be able to start fucking your wife's friend. It can be fun and not harmful to anyone's relationship if done correct. I've fucked or am fucking a handful of friends boyfriends or husbands, and if not friends of mine then just guys who are involved.
I say go for it. One of my ex-wife's friends (her office manager, actually) and I hit it off from day one and had a great connection. Things improved over time, and, I found more fun spending time with her than my wife. Our marriage was heading for the crapper anyway, the manager knew it, and we met up one weekend to experience each other.
Never had better sex in my life than with "Juliette" (name change, btw), and after that all I wanted was more time with her, which we did. The only thing that really stopped us or held things up was their office closing, without any warning, and Juliette moving out of state for her new job. I've often wondered what would have happened if she'd stuck around.
My wife's best friend is a short, thick big breasted woman. Latina. Single. Our wedding day, she felt me up, tried to kiss me, sucked my neck and wanted to get in the limo with me. Harmless? Years later, I was talking to her about her boyfriend's and she said why don't you come down here and do me. I froze. A few seconds and she said I'm only playing. Recently we hung out, a little flirting but nothing sexual. I want to fuck the hell out of her. I need to see if it can be fmf. More erotic. Try inviting your wife.
Don't do it man
Me and my gf is in serious relationship from 3 years. We are too serious about our relationship. We use to having sex twice or thrice in a week. Actually I had a serious addiction of masterbate due to which I use to cum in 3-4 min during sex. When I use to fuck my gf slowly then it went to 10-15 mins but she like to be fucked faster. She loves it. But fucking her faster I use to cum in 2 - 3 mins and she use to afterwards that fuck me more.... Yess...fuck me fast...afterwards she didn't say anything to me but I know she wants to be fucked more by my dick. It feel very embarrassed afterwards. But sometimes I use to fuck her for 15-20 mins also but it happnd very rare. Plzz suggest me how to satisfy my gf. How could I cum late while fucking her...suggest
Well you on here asking for advice and not wanting to hear the down side of your question shows that you maybe be a little to immature to even be considering taking a shot.... maybe grow up mentally a little more to the point where you can think for yourself....
Ask her first, but you should really divorce your wife if you want to take it further. The result of not severing the rope with her could be really bad, and I myself wouldn't risk it.
She's probably waiting for you to get the ball rolling. ;)
I hate to advocate cheating, but if you're going to do it - be smart, make sure that she wants to take it further. Make sure she's going to keep her mouth shut. And also think about if you do get caught, are you ready for the ramifications? I'm not trying to tell you what to do, just think about EVERYTHING before you decide. Good luck.
You gotta take that shot, dude. Go for it. Otherwise, you'll never know how good it could have been. Who knows? She may be "the one". Tap that ass......it's waiting for you. And you KNOW she wants that shit.
Do yourself a favor and save yourself divorce, alimony, child support, heartache, etc. Walk away. If you want to ruin your life, go ahead and "take a shot".
That's the pussy way out. That advice is either from a girl or a girly man.
That's probably advice from someone who's PAYING alimony and child support for "taking a shot"!!!
Don't do it man. Yours in Christ, Martin