GYM SESSION
FIRST OF ALL I AM A 30 YEAR OLD WOMAN WITH A 6YR OLD SON AND A 32YR OLD FIANCEE. ME AND MY FIANCEE ARE GOING TO GET MARRIED IN NOVEMBER. BACK IN FEBRUARY I WAZ A SIZE 10 AND FOR A SUPRISE my fiancee mike got me my dream wedding dress only there was one size left in size 8. I told him ill just get one later but he just forced me to get a personal trainer at the gym as he wanted everything "perfect", something hell live to regret. in a couple of weeks i had signed to a gym and got a trainer called Zac. OMG he was so hot but i werent intrested. he had nice black hair with blue eyes and bulging biceps. over the next few days he got a bit closer to my liking, the way he would touch me and stuff. i told him i wanted to do judo and he agreed. i only done it to beat the shit out of him. after that session we had finished at 10pm so the gym was nearly deserted. i went to the shower and no one was there. i showered and then someone opened my door and it was Zac. he had his clothes on an came in and told me he had wanted to fuck me so bad. so i did. i must of had 100 orgasims. he was so good. its is a couple of months to my wedding and im a size 8 now but i cant live with me cheating on my high school sweetheart and the father of my child. should i tell him. please help me.
Better to know now, then rediscovering this several times / year for the next 30 years. Having a child complicates things. If you love your fiancée then go through with the marriage. You want your husband to be someone that you love, & someone who gets you wet, every time you see him! If your fiancée doesn’t get you wet, if he’s not someone you just can’t wait to have his cock deep inside fucking you pussy, then your trainer has taught you something else. I have a close friend who’s a personal trainer and he’s never married in 15 years. He told me that he’s always having a friendship, relationship, some married, some not, with clients of different ages. When he sees a new client, they look at each other & they know. Female clients know that he will eventually be fucking them. It never lasts though, as he’s always looking for the next sexy client. I’ve asked him, if he feels bad that women are way more wild when he’s fucking them than when they’re boyfriends or husbands & he says “No!”. Were both after something! They want his 10” cock, and he wants a new body. Wouldn’t it be great to be married to a guy who finds you the hottest woman! A husband who you just can’t wait for to give him another BJ, and for him to fuck your brains out, again! If you marry the current guy because of your son, it will be a matter of time, before Zac, or another Zac catches your eye. My trainer friend would be turned on by your up and coming marriage. He definitely fucked women in their wedding dresses before & after the wedding. He even gets invited to weddings, husbands thank him for helping their wives loose weight! Having been divorced 3 times, I’d say stay size 8 and find the guy who makes you hot, wet and gives you a 100 Os! Enjoy Zac but be searching for your Zac, let your current fiancée find someone who he makes wet!
This post is from 2012, too late for advice now
Tell him but also commit to never seeing the trainer Zac again.
Don't tell him. In fact fuck the trainer in the wedding dress and then break it off with the trainer. It's just sex.
I would not tell ur fiancee bc u didnt want to have sex w/ur trainer he came on to u. it happens but u know it was a mistake, u love ur fiancee and u have a 2nd chance just dont make the same mistake again. hope it all works out
He deserves better than a sorry Whore. Tell him so he can dump your sorry ass for someone more deserving.
The truth of the matter is that women with male personal trainers have sex with them. It is strange for a woman NOT to have a sexual relationship with her male trainer. Your fiancee suggested the trainer and so he had to have acknowledged that it would happen. The part of the equation that screws it up is the confirmation that you had done it. That would make the fantasy of the situation too real for your fiancee to deal with.
DON'T TELL. You didn't fuck the trainer out of love, it was just sex. Let it stay just sex. Drop the guilt off and don't turn back.
You made a mistake, but dont tell him, it will set off his ego, this is coming from a guy, I should know.
I don't find anything wrong with it! I did my sister-in-law the day of my wedding and still doing her after 9 years.
If you were my fiance I would be very understanding. Sex isn't really a love or intimate thing, it is more of a recreational thing. As long as nobody was hurt, there is no reason to feel bad.
You are disgusting, thinking someone is going to help you, I hope nothing works out for you.
Why would you cheat on your fiancee!!! Especially when he gets you a dress that's gorgeous. He wants your guys wedding to be perfect, doesn't that matter to you ? But no you just cheat on him with some gym teacher! And you have a kid :/ I would tell him the truth if you really lobe him.
What does "lobe" really mean, though? Does that have something to do with an ear lobe, or another lobe in the body?
How do you lobe someone? I mean, "really lobe" someone?
How would you even write shorthand for that?
You can't write "I <3 u" (I heart you) because that means "I LOVE you".
Maybe you could draw an earlobe in place of the heart ...
Why are you overeacting over "lobe" sheesh