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I slept with my dead fiancee's father
My fiancee died a couple weeks ago and his father has been staying with me since. At first it was just comfort, the cuddling and holding hands. The other day he fin***Ed me and then later told me "that shouldn't have happened". Today, he initiated it again and then I ended up giving him oral. I'm not sure how I feel about it. Not guilty, really. My fiancee died, it's not cheating. And I loved him very much. His father is so much like him, they smell the same, they sound the same when they snore. It's so easy to close my eyes and pretend. I'm just confused and worried I'm letting us do something super effed up. I don't want it to stop, but I also don't know if I want it to continue.
I would continue. this scenario could be very real for me soon as my wife is stage IV cancer. No symptoms truly yet and on meds.. but we really don’t know what’s in store for future.
She’s got a sister that’s super supportive. It’s entirely possible I end up with her at some point. I’m keeping my options open
After college I moved in with my bf and his parents, we’ve been dating since high school. My family moved away. Shortly after a year my bf and his mother was killed by a drunk driver, a girl we went to school with. It was a real difficult time for us. For six years I was sleeping with his father. Til this day I still pay him a special visit for his birthday and Father’s Day.
People all grieve differently. You two seem to be doing the same. I think in this case unless he’s married and it could cause major issues for both of you if it came out then I would stop. Here, as long as it’s mutual and doesn’t become an addiction I think it’s okay. It’s all up to what you can handle as it likely is just your way of grieving and needing the comfort.
Do not stop. I think you two should continue. You two already have a common bond and it's not easy finding a connection these days. Both of you are mature consenting adults. See where it goes.
I don't know your age difference but in today's society, it's not uncommon.
I'm late forties now but when I was younger, I will not tell my age when it happened. I was in high school at the time and had sex with my boyfriend's father. I wanted it, he did too, he was married and everyone found out. My family eventually moved to another town because the situation was so bad.