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I went out for drinks after work with my friends Gwen and Sarah. We work in the same department. We're all late 30s and married with children. We were talking about our spouses and thankfully we are all doing well in our relationships. We love our guys. We talked at length about them and got into a discussion about sex. Who doesn't like talking about that, right?
A few topics emerged. Our guys all have average to slightly above average sized cocks. Gwen and I estimated our guys are about 6" and Sarah said her man is probably closer to 7". It sounded like my guy might be the thickest. But we all admitted that cock size didn't matter much at that point. Sarah and I had both been with bigger before we married and it was no big deal. Average is more than enough to do the job well.
What WAS a big deal was performance. I thought it was just me, but the others said it was #1 for them too. My husband is still quite capable at sex, but he can't fuck like he did in his early 20s. He was a sex machine back then. He could fuck for an hour, pound me into ecstasy, and control his orgasm on cue in those days. He could have multiple orgasms, sometimes up to three an hour, and get hard again within two minutes. Now he lasts maybe 10 minutes tops and is "one and done." He's 38.
My friends said their guys have lost a step sexually too over the years. No one said anything bad, really. My friends said that their guys can still get it up fine. But they just cant FUCK their pussies as well as they used to. Like really, really fuck.
Getting truly fucked into another zone is something we all missed. It isn't dick size, technique, or any of that. It is the ability of a guy to get rock hard, stay rock hard, and deliver for a long time until our pussies are spent. We all realized that we hadn't really been fucked that well in many years. It was kind of sad to realize that. I don't think I'd ever cheat, but on a fantasy level, if I did it would be to get fucked just once like I used to get fucked years ago. Our conversation made me think that there are probably a lot of us who are in the same boat.
Paula, Leslie and I have been friends all of our lives. We also are all married and have older children. Now in our mid 40's we've moved back to our hometown and get together quite frequently. Talk Gossip whatever.
we have had that same conversation about our husbands.
we came up with a solution, twice a year we go on a girl's holiday in Negril, Jamaica twice a year and slip off to Hedo for day trips