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Sharing my wife with same man for 20 years
My wife and I were married about 10 years when I asked her if she had ever thought of being with another man. She said she didn’t believe in cheating spouses but she admitted having a fantasy about my friend Chuck. They always flirt a little back and forth whenever he’s around but that’s as far as it went. I asked her a question. I asked if she thought it was still cheating if your spouse gives consent and watches. She agreed that was an interesting question. She said from a biblical standpoint she didn’t think it was right but from a cheating standpoint she didn’t think it would be cheating if your spouse consented and was present to watch because they would know everything that happened.
I asked if she would like to have Chuck sometime. She said she liked Chuck as a friend but worried that it might affect our marriage and our friendship with Chuck. Nothing was mentioned about it again until Chuck came over to visit. After he left she asked me if I wanted to watch her with Chuck? I asked her if she would be ok with that? She said she thought it might be awkward but if I wanted to watch she might be open to it.
I talk to Chuck to get his honest thought about it. He was worried about it affecting our friendship too. We all agreed to try it once and agreed not to let it affect our friendship and if it was too weird we would never do or talk about it again. Chuck came over to let me watch him with my wife. My wife was apprehensive as she and Chuck started undressing. She looked at me and blushed as Chuck gently removed her bra and panties. I was excited seeing her naked in front of another man. Chuck was very good and gentle with my wife. Gently laying her on the bed and fondling her breasts and nipples. He kissed her gently all over her body. He gently pressed her knees open kissing her inner thighs and moving upward toward her waiting pussy. She looked at me as his tongue found her pussy and she began to moan. He eventually moved up and she gasped as he slid his cock into her. She reached orgasm about the same time as him. Afterwards Chuck got dressed and my wife put on a robe and we had a drink together. So far so good.
After Chuck left I asked if she was ok with what had happened. She said before I answer that how did I feel about it? I said honestly, watching her get naked in front of Chuck was exciting. Watching him gently kiss her breasts and nipples was nice too. She asked if I liked watching him enter her. I said honestly, watching him spread her legs, kiss her thighs and watching her reaction to his tongue finding her pussy was more exciting. I did admit that watching her orgasm was very pleasing. I said your turn to tell me what she thought.
She said it was embarrassing at first having another man see her naked. She said when he started kissing her breasts and nipples she felt secure having me there watching. She said she knew she was going to be ok because I was there. She said when he laid her on the bed she was ok. She said the best part for her was when he spread her legs and kissed her thighs knowing his lips would be on her pussy soon and it was ok because I was there to watch and protect her. She agreed that watching me watch her as her legs were opening was a thrill for her too. She said him entering her was ok but was somehow wishing it was me. She said when she felt herself reaching orgasm she opened her eyes and looked at me and it intensified the orgasm with me watching. I asked if she ever wanted to do it again. She said not often but it would be ok once in a while.
Fast forward 20 years. We are in our 50’s now. About two or three times a year I still watch her with Chuck. It’s happened two or three times a year for the last twenty years but only with Chuck. Chuck married about 10 years ago and his wife knows about our arrangement. We tried it once with me doing Chuck’s wife while Chuck and my wife watched. Chuck enjoyed it and my wife said she enjoyed it but Chuck’s wife said while she enjoyed the sex with me she didn’t care for being watched. So it has been just me watching Chuck and my wife. My wife and I still enjoy that to this day. Chuck watched us once and my wife enjoyed him watching but it wasn’t the same for me.
Chuck is still gentle with my wife today and it’s still exciting two or three times a year. I think it works for us because Chuck is the only one we do it with and it’s only three times a year so it’s always a treat for all of us.
Is this anything that anyone else enjoys?
My wife had a lover for 17 years. A guy she worked closely with. He was in sales and she was in project management. Their projects were fairly major and would typically take a year or more to complete. About 4 times a year they would travel together to the various sites. To keep it secret from work and from his wife, they mostly kept the sexual part of their relationship to staying together while on the road. My wife, him and I were very open about what was going on. He thought it was weird that I let her be with him but not enough to keep from fucking my wife from time to time. Everything was fine until his wife developed a fatal illness and passed away. My wife assumed that her and him would get closer after his wife was gone. We even discussed creating a sharing agreement, where she could stay over at his place a few nights a week. She was really looking forward to it. But my wife was crushed when, only a few months later, he hooked up with woman he met on the internet and took a job in another state to be with her. He said that he wanted to start a new life. It has taken about two years, but she is just coming around to realizing that she needs a second man in her life to be happy. She has been on a couple dates, but hasn't found what she is looking for yet.
My wife has been pleasing my best friend for 7 years now. She pleases him anyway he wants. Most blowjobs. He fucks her sometimes. It's a normal thing
What a lovely story. Ive tried to get my wife to try that but she doesnt have a horny bone in her body :'(