Chastity

I'm the guy below that tried this last week.
What outcome are you wanting if your wife does get on board with it?
If your plan was to get caught wearing it, does that mean you'd want her to be in complete control constantly? Complete denial?

I suggest putting it on sometime when you know you can take her right to bed and eat her pussy. You can undress and matter of fact refer to it being there, and as a result of that she has no choice but be taken by your mouth.
You could have sent to keys to your house by mail so that you taking the cage off is beyond her control. Now it wouldn't be her fault for your dick and she can enjoy the benefit guilt free. Then if she is really into it she will take the keys. If she's somewhat into it you could repeat surprising her and maybe have the key frozen deep in your freezer or anywhere inconvenient. If she doesn't like it at all it is still better to have tried.

I'm 45 and tried introducing one this week. She wasn't excited about it took it off and fucked me. My dick had not been inside her for over 2 years. I was trying to "formalize" that sex with her would just be giving her oral and fucking her with dildos. Which is what our sex life has been. I thought maybe she'd want sex more often if it was clear she it wouldn't involve my dick. She only wants to Domme me accidentally.

There are several metal type on Temu at their pricing. I made sure to get one that had a large opening or fit close enough urine wouldn't splatter when I went to restroom. I got the only that is smaller than their "small" size, nub or mini. I was amused by that.

Good luck

Also, I'd get a few and figure a few things out yourself to prepare. I have way too many. lol Some are less effective and that might be a better way to introduce it. Last week I wore one that full restricts my ability become erect away from my body. I think that was a bad decision. I also have some that have a pass through. I don't know if there was specific intention in the design of these but to me it's a restriction still. Instead of cage that part is a ring or similar.

I'd been thinking about this for a long time occasionally looking at them online and picking out some when they were on sale. Thinking about what was "reasonable". Hygiene is a concern. If I waited I could find what I was looking for at around $10, and I probably adjusted what I was wanting based on the types that would drop to 10 or less.

I got this one that is plastic and comes with 4 different sizes of the first ring you put all of your junk through. That'd help familiarize yourself with the size you are comfortable with there. The plastic would be far easier to break in the event of an emergency.

I have a stainless one like the one above and it looks nice and has a stronger implication of control. One similar except the penis ring 2 separate rings that form a kind of like a dog collar.

Any of the three I mentioned allow me to have a normal day. Other ones look like they would be more of a learning process, and a big step. Maybe too much at once for either of you when you first encounter it.

Some pieces from one metal set will fit with another but others will not. The top piece that you lock down, some are left hand and some are right.

Also, while I can be comically small soft I'm 5.25 hard, fwiw

I say just put it on and wear it once she sees it she'll play along she might actually get really into it

I just bought one and put it on. Wife was like wtf is that. I told her and then pulled out a strapon for her to pegg me. She fuvks the shit out of me now and I cum all on my cage. I get to clean it all up with my mouth after she uncages me.

Just talk to her about it, and tell her why you are interested in it. I used to masturbate a lot and spend hours of my day doing it, I explained to her that I needed to stop spending so much time masturbating. She lets me out when I want out and we have sex a couple of times a week, but now I have 10-12 hours of my week available to me I didn't before.