Ethical sexual debate
Going to try to keep this short and to the point. I would really like any readers opinion.
I helped out my wife's sister with a problem it was pretty serious she could have gotten a lot of trouble.
A discussion between my wife and her sister that I was not a part of about how she can repay me for my help and it was suggested that I may enjoy her sister giving me a handjob or blowjob.
My wife was okay with this she just did not want to know the details how when or where and I agreed just for the fun of it and the kink of being with a sister.
While her sister was jerking me and sucking me I offered her sister $200 cash if she would let me fuck her and the sister agreed we also discussed that my wife did not want to know anything about what we did and she was okay with that so I paid her and fucked her.
Only jerking and sucking me was discussed as repayment but I ended up fucking her sister, was that unethical was it considered cheating? I just don't see that much difference sexually I had permission to participate with her sister sexually doesn't matter exactly what we did?
Thanks for sharing your opinions
Wife and I are both in National Guard, I was deployed for a year with half of our outfit, my wife deployed with the other half, and we didn't get to see each other. He sister who was looking after the kids while we were coming and going, told me that don't be afraid to ask for help and was great about checking in on me. after I was home for a month and finally settled in, she stopped by, well how are you doing, is there anything I can do for you, you must miss my sister, then she told me that she and her sister know men have craving and that she was there for me if I needed "something more than a manual release" now just those words made us both chuckle but I was so horny that we had sex and it was great. we lay in bed after, and I asked her if she and my wife actually talked about this and she said yes, that what family is for. My next question was does her husband know about this and if so, how does he feel about it She said that he understands. She ais that with a little smile and then in the back of my mind I thought did he help my wife out ? but didn't ask
Great family. Your wife definitely fucked her sisters husband. Thank you for your service
You didn't follow the agreement by deviation from the spirit of the verbal contract. The most fundamental thing that this indicates is that you are not the kind of person to be trusted with anything.
If you trivialize a sexual act allowed in a certain level of trust and you figured out a way to safely get around it for your advantage then you are the kind of person that would commit a murder or molest a child if it worked to your advantage.
It doesn't surprise me in the least that an American would do this then post an ethical question on this kind of a website.
Your wife must be lame in bed.
My wife was always adventurous in bed. So I'm not sure where you're getting here ideas. But I did leave out of my question was my wife had just had our second child. It had been a few weeks since I have had sex and she was just thinking of me and my needs.
The line was alright crossed by your wife agreeing to the form of payment.