My wife was raped

I was raped by my brother in-law, the most difficult part of this was they’re twins. I actually had to divorce my husband because every time I saw him I couldn’t tell them apart, and it would remind me of his brother. I willingly had sex with him, thinking it was my husband. But this literally destroyed our marriage and family.

How did you actually find out it wasn’t your husband? Did your husband know that it was going to happen prior to you having sex with his brother?

Get her help.
Get yourself a divorce.

I know that actual rape is terrible, but I have a fantasy of my wife and I being overpowered, or drugged somehow by a group of men that take turns raping is both, then forcing me to have sex with my wife while they watch.