I was embarrassed , I was ghosted by my bf
This happened on number of years ago but it's still bugs me.
We were together four months and it was the time of year for the holidays. We had also just taken things to the next level if you know what I mean. Anyway, we were talking about plans for the holidays. And I invited him to Thanksgiving. He met my family and they thought he was nice. He thanked my mom for dinner and was very polite. A couple of my friends came over and they met him and they said wow and what a lucky girl I was.
As it turned out, Thanksgiving was the last time I ever saw him. I called and text a few times but never heard back from him. Christmas got closer and closer and I tried to get ahold of him. His phone was disconnected.
This was embarrassing because I thought him and me had a great relationship. This is embarrassing because he met my family and friends. And everybody thought he was great.
And then seeing more family and friends at Christmas time, it was so embarrassing to have to explain the family and friends that he and I were no longer together..
I was ghosted by a guy. I hated that. I want a closure. But he could never give it to me because he ghosted me.
Guys just want to avoid confrontational situation
Guys move on after a few months.
My relationships last about three months.
Mine last about 3 or 4 fucks.
You fuck a girl and few times then that's it?
Four months it was still a new relationship. Some people go out for a few months and then relationship just sorts of ends.
He decided to move on and didn't wanna have a big conversation about it
It's a pain to have to talk about this, so guys ghosted a girl.
Sorry , some guys like to go to girl just to avoid confrontations