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I came home early, my bf was in bed with the waitress
I came home early unexpectedly. My BF was in bed with the waitress from a restaurant we go to. It's a small family owned restaurant, and usually the same waitresses services us each time.
They got dressed and she left and he explained that while she was having problems in life and he was trying to help her with some things. He explained he had gone to her place he was helping her move some furniture around. He said I was completely misunderstanding and reading too much into what is going on. He said he was trying to help her because she had problems and so he was lending an ear to her.
He said he doesn't know why this happened but he said it was unplanned so it's not like they were trying to go behind my back and cheat on me.
Anyway he says I'm blowing things out of proportion Like I always do.
He says our relationship is strong and we're going to get past this as long as I have the proper attitude about all of it.
I saw a way cool porn, waitress took on two guys . Afternthe restaurant closed, they got down to business.
Waitresses expect guys to want them. Some girls do these jobs just so they can meet guys.
Waitresses want to be fucked.
Shit they ask for dick.
True! I was a part-time waitress during my college days. It was a fun way to make good tips and have lots of fun on the side!
Some girls take these jobs to meet men.
And they want to go out with guys they meet on the job.
I worked part-time as a server in my late teens and early 20s. I admit flirting and flaunting to make good tips. I also never got offended if one of my regulars put his hand on my butt either. It was harmless and all in fun.
I'm in my 40s now and when I tell that story, I get called a slut and told I should have called the police. How times have changed.
It's part of the job for the waitresses. To cope with men who want them.
True waitresses deal with this all the time.
Guys hit on waitresses all the time. This is nothing new
Female-44.
We're human and make mistakes. This is 2024 NOT 1950.
At least they were open and honest with you. There is a difference between love and sex. From what you wrote, it sounds like he's being honest with his intentions and the waitress is too. You know as well as anyone a woman has urges and desires. Have you ever looked at a handsome man in lust? We all have.
I think he could have been a little bit more tactful with his location. Personally, I would be mad at my husband if he brought a woman back to my bed rather than find out he was going to a hotel. But that's another issue.
I'll admit having a few workplace affairs. I've always been discrete and only away on company travel. It's also been with a married co-worker or manager so there's no risk of 'kissing and telling'. I insist on protection. After all, a girl still likes to have her fun.
With that being said, I love my husband and always come home to him.
On the other hand, I do not know if my husband is having fun on the side and I don't worry about it if he is. The reason, he still comes home to me. We've been happily married 23 years this year and together a total of 28.
If he's serious about your relationship and repairing the damage, he will be open to you having fun on the side also.
Shit happens.
Lotsa guys fuck the waitress.
Lots of waitresses are willing to go out with customers. Lots of them say guys ask them out all the time. A certain number of them will make this connection with guys they met at work.
Helping move furniture. Ya, he moved her bed around then they tested out the positioning of the bed .
LOL. THEY MOVE THE BED AND THEN THEY MOVE THE BED AGAIN.
Yup the bed was moving.
The bed was moving due to them fucking
How do you excuse cheating
No excuse. Zero tolerance of cheating.
You are in a position of power. Use it wisely.
Its sex. Sex and love are sometimes two different things. You can love someone deeply, have great sex with them, and all is well. Sometimes you can meet someone and be friends and have sex, sex if fun, sex does not equal love and commitment. I love sex with new people and would gladly jump in bed with almost any girl that wants to do it. That does not mean I want to spend the rest of my life with any of them. Its just sex and sex is fun.