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Joined a swingers group
After many years of marriage and attempting to revive our flagging sex life, my husband suggested that we join and roleplay / swingers group in our area, I was somewhat taken aback by his suggestion, however he had been talking to friends of ours who were in the same situation and they had and it had revived their flagging sex life. I was not really too happy about it, however after over 40 years of marriage, we had both put on weight and found having sex was now a bit of a chore.
Anyway we made contact with the group and we received instructions regarding their next meet up, I also received instructions on how to dress, my husband didn't as they explained in an e-mail that it was more likely that the wife would back out, so they wanted me to dress in a way that would show my commitment.
I was instructed to dress as a Saint Trinnian's school girl, with white blouse, white see through bra, possibly a size too small and a push up one, white cotton panties, black seamed stockings, short skirt, blazer and school shoes. It was difficult to get these items although I had some old clothes in the attic which were mine and some which belonged to our daughters. I managed to get all required and tried them on, I must admit I did look quite a slut and my boobs seemed huge pushed up and my nipples were visible!
The evening of the meet up we drove to a hotel in the middle of nowhere, my husband was very nervous, I was quite excited. We parked and checked in, it appeared that the whole group were checked in as a corporate event and had block booked the entire 2nd floor. We found our room and freshened up and dressed. I was getting excited while dressing and wondering what the evening would bring, my husband stated that he wanted to go home, he was not happy about thinking I may well end up getting a night of wanton sex and he might not be able to cope with me having sex with someone else.
Anyway I reassured him that if I did it was only sex as I loved him dearly and suggested that he may well get lucky!
We proceeded to the main function room and saw a room full of people, only 2 of them we knew, the couple that had told us about this group, all of the ladies were dressed provocatively, the men all dressed casual.
Anyway before long after a few drinks, we were all requested to be seated, once settled we were instructed to place our phones in the centre of the table. Once this was done, we were asked to select a phone and for it not to be ours. I took a phone as did my husband, as did every one. Suddenly my selected phone rang and I was instructed to go room room 231, which I did, as I walked away I glanced back at my husband, who I clearly saw wipe a tear from his eye. I arrived at room 231 and entered, I walked into a headmasters study! Well the room was attired that way, sitting behind the desk in the centre of the room was a man dressed as a Headmaster of a school! He bellowed at me for being late and instructed that I move to his table, I hesitated and he shouted at me again. Once I was closer to him, he told me I was there for a school misdemeanour and I was to receive the due punishment, He told me to bend over, I did this and I felt him move behind me and lift my short skirt above my waste, he then slapped my bottom with his hand, not too hard but enough to get me interested, he instructed to thank him after every slap, which I did, then without any warning I felt his finger slip under my panties and slide between my legs, I clenched and he told me to relax, I did and he slipped his finger into my now wet cunt, he was pleased I was wet and then he told me to strip, I was a little slow to move and he again told me to hurry up. I stood in the middle of the room and removed my blazer, blouse, skirt, bra, panties, shoes and then stockings, I stood naked, I was then told the whole evening was being filmed and I was being live streamed back to the room my husband was in! I was naked and vulnerable, shaking with fear / excitement not sure which, I was led to the desk and instructed to firstly lay on my back, I did and the headmaster started to finger me and then went down on me, it has been years since my husband had performed oral sex on me, so I came very quickly, he then told me to get on all fours on the desk, again I did as told and at that my naked bottom was hit with a cane, I think, and then I was mounted and fucked, the headmaster came in me, just after I had climaxed. He dismounted and told me to go to room 241, but that's another evenings work!
Once we started swinging, my wife agreed to a boob job. She's alway been flat chested but once we started swapping, she noticed all the other wives had huge fake titles. She asked if I liked that look. I'd been telling her for years she needed some tits. She got a reference for a doctor that had done a few. We made an appointment for consultation and she finally went for it. She was in a bad mood for the first 3 days, hurt a lot and was having regret. Two weeks later she was glad she did it. OMG!
We are a small group of five married couples aged 30 to 45 and we are into wife/hubby swapping party on weekends once a month - by rotation in our homes. That's the best erotic fun we ever could have! Every thing goes - mmf. fffm. mmff. mmm. fff. Secrecy is the only rule in our act!
Sounds like the ideal situation
YES! But we are not into BDSM in any way...
I was not but after my first taste of getting spanked I enjoy a little mild BDSM
My wife and I started swinging during the Covid lockdown of 2020. We are both having fun and glad we did.
I was 29 and she was 26 when our older neighbors (late 50s) invited us over for a backyard pool party and grill out. It was just us because their other 'friends' were supposed to fly in but the lockdown had started.
After a few drinks they shocked us both by lighting up a joint. For my wife and I, it had been a since college when we last smoked one. Everyone was relaxed and my wife went with Gary to the couch to talk and Renee and I finished the joint. I noticed she was getting very flirty and her hand was rubbing up my leg. She told me they were swingers and asked if we'd like to join them.
They went inside while my wife and I talked about it. My wife was buzzed but knew what was going on. She told me Gary already showed her his hard on.
We agreed but not in the same room. Gary and my wife went inside to a spare room and Renee and I went to their master bedroom. When everyone finished we went back outside and shared another joint before my wife and I went home for the evening. We joined their group of friends and it's been a blast.
Years ago when I was in my early 30’s my husband decided he wanted to experience a swinging situation. We hooked up with a couple through a dating club. They were experienced swingers and older than us. After breaking the ice through a game of strip poker I went off with my new friend to a spare bedroom at their house. My husband went off with his wife.
The sex I had with him was very intense and he was extremely well endowed. I’m not sure how long we were in bed together but I know we made love twice. His wife came into our room and calmly told me my husband was outside waiting in his car.
We drove home in silence and I knew he was both hurting and upset that we’d gone through with it. After a few tense weeks we finally talked it through and decided that swinging was not for him. Fortunately for me I loved it and this resulted in me enjoying several affairs over the years afterwards.
Fortunate or unfortunate, this scenario is all to familiar with most men that want to dabble into the swinger lifestyle. I’ve got some really close girlfriends and we have talked about this subject. After 10 years of marriage my husband wanted to experiment, I didn’t want to, but agreed even though I told him what might happened. I had a great time, he had some anxiety and performance issues.
We got divorced about a year later as he just couldn’t reconcile what had happened. Four of my close friends have much the same story and are also on their second marriages.
I did post the 2nd part to this experience.