The pleasure my ex gives

Four years ago, my husband and I went through a rough patch. He was working long hours and had become a stressed out ass. It was to the point of mental abuse. I'd had enough and told him to get help.
I moved into a one bedroom apartment an hour away on a month to month basis.
My ex started messaging. He was single again. He was a 'major player'. He liked to fuck around but he was never mean to me.
We started out meeting for dinner and talking. Within days it became sexual. It grew into me staying with him or him staying with me. We'd spend the weekend on his boat on the lake.
After the third month, my husband called and wanted me to know he'd been going to a marriage therapist and asked me to attend one session. Then we could decide if there was hope or if we needed separate for good. I agreed. He'd changed and we worked things out and are together now.
My ex understood and encouraged me to get back with my husband.
To this day, my husband has no clue I spent three months having sex with my ex.
During our sessions, I was asked if I was seeing anyone. I fibbed and said no. I told them I used the time to reflect and read the Bible in my spare time. He told me he'd remained faithful and committed to working less hours and taking stress management courses.

My girlfriend cheated so we split up. Got back together a few years later. Guess she ran into him. Told me we needed space her code she needed another cock. I said fine in 2 days I fucked 4 girls and had a threesome with 2. She called on the third day come over I did not mean it. So when I showed I had hickeys on my neck and chest. I told her you wanted space not me. Well we fucked and she confessed she had ran into her ex and wanted to get pounded one more time by him