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Confessed to my wife that I am a bi crossdresser
I have been married for many years. Before getting married, I experimented with crossdressing and sex with guys. I loved to put on pretty lingerie and get topped. But I love sex with women also. After getting married, I resigned myself to straight sex only.
But the urge to dress pretty never goes away. I finally told my wife of my urges to wear feminine attire, including night gowns and dresses. She wasn't too surprised because she'd found some of my web browsing. She asked if I wanted to have sex with men because of some sites I was visiting. I explained that it was just fantasy. But she said that if I wanted to experiment, she wouldn't be upset. And she said in fact she'd like to experiment with lesbian sex sometime.
So now, I wear pretty nighties when we go to bed, and we frequently get really worked up talking about our bi fantasies. Who knows. Maybe we'll act out on them.
Sounds fun. I wanna play!
Lesbian crossdressing is beautiful.
Lesbians dress better than straight people.
I haven't worn boy clothes to have sex in years. I have plenty but if I'm wearing boxers, I don't get a second look. Sometimes, she'll tell me there's a gift on the bed or just flat out tell me to change. We have plenty of sex its just always in lingerie. She says she doesn't like the mind "switch" to have sex with me as a real man... That she'd rather see me as whatever I am now and not pretend because the switching back and forth actually is frustrating. Expecting one thing and getting another. I usually go overboard with the real man talk and acting. I don't really know where the line is and I screw it up. She starts crying... I'd start crying... We agreed to not intentionally try anymore.
We have a real man to have sex with. He is a friend we did threesomes with before the cross dressing came out. He found out about my hobby and we just kind of evolved. Instead of MMf now we do it Mff. Again, she says the mind games are too much to balance pretending I'm not what I am now. I don't get to do penis in vagina when he is there but every other time I get to! We just pretend its a strap-on. We incorporated a real strap on too because it makes her squeal like crazy! Its so hot sometimes I pop before its even my turn.
Anyway!!!! The whole point is yes, I get to CD with my wife and its fun!
You have no idea how lucky you are!!! I tried to tell my wife and she just could not understand. Now i think about dressing all the time and can't. Tell your wife how much you love her.