Call me fat in the bedroom only
This might seem weird, my husband and I Play with toys and we like to dirty talk whilst having sex. He calls me a fat arse whore, sloppy slut, to name a few.. I actually love him calling me names when we have sex, I get off on it. The thing is we have always kept that sort talk of talk to our bedroom. We never set a rule or anything it’s just what we have always done. But The last few weeks, for the first time ever in our marriage, my husband called me a ‘fat arse lazy bitch’ during an argument.
Then just over the weekend, we had some friends over for a BBQ and he asked me to bring him out some extra plates, whilst in the kitchen, I got distracted, and after a few minutes, my husband yelled from outside, Megan the plates please! With that I realised I’d forgotten! I quickly grabbed them and made my out to the backyard, where our friends were already seated at the table and it was then my husband laughed and said come on get that fat arse waddling over here baby, everyone’s waiting!
I’m not sure if I’m in shock because his never called me names before, even in an argument. I told him how it made me feel and he blew me off.. he said you love me calling you names you are my fat pumpkin. you love it in bed, what’s the difference?
Why does it bother me so much, that he now is calling me fat outside the bedroom? Am I being too sensitive and silly?
Stop whining, you fat slob. You're a fat pig, either lose the weight or embrace it and deal with the name calling. Your husband has to put up with your laziness, gluttony and lack of self-respect so he can call you whatever he likes at anytime.
If you're a fat pig in the bedroom then you're a fat pig everywhere else. No need to sugar coat it, tubby. Everyone is thinking what your husband said.
Fat bitch you deserve to be call fat pig in front of family and friends..Maybe you will finally decide to do something about your fat ass.
Don’t be an asshole dude!!
Eat shit. Fat bitches are pigs. Disgusting fat hogs. Fuck this body positively crap. It's a direct ride to disease and a shortened life. Worst of all, we all pay for it so fat Fucks can stuff their fat faces and destroy themselves.
Amen.
Definitely out of order. He's going to fuck up a great situation as he doesn't understand that, unless you've agreed beforehand, some things just stay in the bedroom. All you can do is try talking to him in a non-threatening way and let him know you aren't comfortable using your bedroom language with other people. Good luck!
I agree with you it's not right. I call my wife a nasty slut in the bedroom never would I say it in public. We are little kinky so when she pegging she call me a bitch I'm cool with it. She said it once during an argument I was about to go OJ on her.
I agree with you, it sounds like he’s taking it too far. And don’t get me wrong, I love BBW’s, skinny women don’t do a thing for me!! I’m sure your sex with him is very hot, and even hotter with the dirty talk!! But if it bothers you outside the bedroom, then he’s in the wrong. Doesn’t matter what he thinks about it. Sounds like you made your voice heard in that, and he should respect it!!
If you are fat, just own it. Your husband obviously like his fat mama.