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Why do you hide your masturbation from your SO
My wife and I are open with each other’s masturbation. But even so I would like it to be even more so.
But my question is why are so many people hiding it or denying it to their SO? And furthermore why do many think their SO shouldn’t do it while they do it themselves?
It seems to me that many couples expect and or demand open honest and transparent communication but with this normal activity there is a double standard. I know many people are open about it, but in reading these pages and others I am lead to believe the majority are outright hiding it or at best prefer to keep their head in the sand instead of making it part of their shared experiences either physically and or verbally.
So are you open and encouraging of your SOs masturbation? If so what do you do to encourage it? Do you or they hide it and why?
I don't hide it. It turns me on when watches cum shooting out of my cock. She enjoys it too
Hide it? Hell, I chase my wife around the house, trying to shoot my load on her! It's funny as as all get out when she's on the phone!
Nice job!
My wife and I freely admit to masturbating. On occasion we will call the other just to let them know that we are masturbating and hear the other have their orgasm. I call my wife a few days ago to let her know i was on my way home. She was masturbating, (she told me) and then let me hear her vibrator and her moans until she came. I drove home with a hard on.
I like y’all’s style ! I love it when my wife starts her vibator. I love to hear her cum.
My ex used to call me out for masturbating and call me a pervert. Meanwhile she’d keep a toy in her nightstand and pretend it was some other massage type device, and claim she never masturbates. I’m so fucking glad she’s my ex. I now have an awesome and open sex life.
I told my wife that I masturbate to the stories of her history, and the flirty stuff she does now and tells me about. I took her panties off the other night before eating her, they were nice a scented-up. After sex she saw me pick them up, smell them and put them in my pocket.
It is easy to fantasize and masturbate to my wife only - she is that sexy, and has a very sexy past!
She is the only female that I masturbate to! I haven't had that many lovers - but none compare to her !
After we necked and petted - I told her use my thigh to make herself cum. She did! It is very sexy watching her close her eyes and go with the feeling coming up from her wet clit!
My wife will use my thigh sometimes to get herself warmed up and I love it.
I think it's embarrassment. I totally love to masturbate with others. And yes sometimes I do like to do it alone if others don't like porn or are finished first. I've noticed some are more comfortable online or on the phone than on person to do it.
I agree I think it’s embarrassment. But why do so many think so? And yet other sexual acts don’t have the same stigma attached. Why is masturbation more embarrassing then giving or receiving oral or say breast play? It’s not like it’s some kink that is only enjoyed by less the 1% of the public. I think it should be as acceptable as any other common form of sex. I don’t know the true stats and maybe no one does due to people not being honest but it’s probably performed more then traditional sex