LSTTTTT
As an older bi male I’ve honed my cocksucking skills over 40 years or so. I’ve been with at least 50 men and some of them dozens of times. I never consider myself an expert because I find that presumptuous and not for me to decide (the men I suck can decide). I also continue to learn, practice, and improve my craft. And as a guy, I’ve received my share of blowjobs too and made plenty of mental notes. I’ve learned giving s good blowjob comes down to 8 things I’ve summed up with the acronym LUSTTTTT
1. Lips - this is obvious but must be stated. Soft moist lips provide the constant contact, structure and occasional suction and pressure that every good blowjob needs.
2. Up - looking up into a mans eyes as he looks dominantly down can be very exciting for him. Not all men want that, but most seem to. It enhances the idea that they are in charge. Plus it was a “U” word to make my acronym pronounce as lust.
3. Submission - giving head is obviously a very submissive act by its nature. But I like to make sure a man knows my mouth is his sex toy and I am there for his masculine pleasure. I may be piloting the boat, but he’s the captain.
4. Tongue - companion of the lips, the tongue is critical. It can do a solo teasing act, or be fully involved in a tag team along with the lips. The tongue should always be wet, eager, curious and compliant. And for explorations south of the cock, there is no better tool.
5. Throat - Although not all blowjobs require deep-throating, I’ve found that the best ones do. And I’ve never, ever had a man not enjoy plunging deep into my throat.
6. Teeth - teeth must be kept out of the way at all times (with the possible exception of a little teasing nibble now and then). Lets face it, some otherwise spectacular head can be ruined be even momentary scraping by the teeth. The mouth should be wide open with teeth far apart, then bring the lips in tights and let the tongue go to work. To be honest, its tough to fuck up a blowjob….unless you don't know what you’re doing with the teeth.
7. Taking - All the best blowjobs have a happy ending. I’ve yet to meet the man that wants to be sucked but doesn’t want to ejaculate. But not all men like to cum in the same place. Most are quite happy to unload in a warm wet mouth while others enjoy a deep plunge down the throat as they groan with pleasure and pump their seed. Still others enjoy the visual of making their slut look like a glazed donut. Regardless, it’s important to let a man cum where he wants.
8. Talk - with very few exceptions, men like to talk at some point during head. Some like to name-call. Whore, slut, bitch, or my personal favorite…cunt. Others like to brag about their cock or prowess. And almost all like to announce their pending ejaculation. Some start out shy and quiet, but I encourage their verbal contributions and it seems to enhance their pleasure and confirm that they are in charge.
So guys, have I captured it all? Have I missed something? I’d love any input or advice. After all, I’m still learning.
I love you.
I know that it's wrong but I was trained from the young age of 9 how to give head from my uncle that I was living with. I still remember gagging so hard on his man size cock that I threw up until I learned how to deep throat him. I was there for his pleasure and that's all. I was 13 when he started having friends over to play cards and I would be under the table and I had to suck each of the men off one after the other and keep going until the card game was over. That when I learned that all men are different cum taste different different sizes of cocks how some guys like to grab my head and push me down on them so they can cum in my throat. Long story short I am married and she knows about my childhood and she was OK with it and she wanted to see me sucking cock to find out what it's like watching a guy given head. Once a cock sucker always a cock sucker and everyone wants to use your mouth.
Swallow, let him cum in your mouth and down the back of your throat. Always let him cum in your mouth. I love cum and don't want it wasted anywhere but in my mouth and sometimes all over my face.