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Fessing up to partners
Do you think it's okay to keep secrets from your partner? I'd say some are okay but read the following to see what I am REALLY referring to:
All you folks who enjoy or participate in fringe kinks or taboo activities, please PLEASE be upfront and honest with anyone you're planning a future with (fiance, spouse, etc) because while you're deciding if it's ok for you to share your dirty little secret or whether it might ruin your life, it's super important to respect your significant other and allow them the same luxury of making lifelong decisions based on all the facts.
So, if you like playing with dogs, are addicted to strip clubs, hang out by elementary schools, see escorts, are into piss play or scat, can't live without trannies, and you wear your mothers underpants, or suck off your grandpa, don't play your partner for a fool, risk embarrassing them, or ruin their life by holding back. If they're important enough to you to make a commitment, they should be important enough to be honest and open about pretty serious issues.
In other words, if you're afraid to tell them because they might think it's gross or weird or whatever, it's best to let them know and not have them find out later. If they're fine with it, you won't have to sneak around and hide; if they're not fine with it, it's best to get it out there and both of you can get on with your lives and find suitable longterm relationships that match your needs and desires.
I told my wife that my fantasy was her father to see me and our male friend fucking her! What do you think he would say she said? Who knows babe but I'd love him to see you being dp'ed! Do you think he'd be turned on by it she replied? Maybe I said would you be turned on knowing he was there watching? She gave me a cheeky smile and said shall we find out? Omg really babe I asked? Mmm how about next Friday? I messaged our friend straight away telling him to come over Friday night,we were well into our session and I heard a guys voice from downstairs,I looked at my wife and she smiled back, we were both fucking her when her dad pushed the bedroom door open! Bloody hell he said! He watched for a few seconds and then walked back down the stairs
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I have not, nor ever will, share with my wife that when I was about 11 or 12 I laid on my grandmother's big bed, naked below our waist with another boy.
We took turns touching each other's dick and balls. Maybe two afternoons. I think we also put the dicks in our mouths....just by instinct!
Noone came.
But I still have pleasant memories of his creamy fair-skinned penis snd balls. Just a few blonde pubes! Lovely looking crotch !
It felt SO good. He also felt so good!
60 yrs ago now....we each had two marriages and several children.
Recently saw him at my brother's funeral. We just shook hands warmly....smiling at one another.
He passed away last year.
It is a very fond memory!!!
Some things are better unsaid. I had some bisexual fun when I was just a teen. Never told my wife. Years in she wanted to get kinky like pegging brought back all the memories and I enjoy it.